I am freaking out. Me and my boyfriend aren't very well off. I was driving home from work and I saw someone who looked like him on the street. Low and behold it was him. I turned around the street and saw him begging people for money. He was wearing his old army uniform. It's not that we are poor. And what gets me -- is if he has been doing this for a while... where is all the money? What do I do??
2006-06-30 12:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Poestalker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What he does reflects his personality, his level of thinking. The issue is on your side because one day when things are tough he will remind you saying that you knew that I did it (panhandle) So what now do you expect from me? Do not let it be too late for you to have a fresh start in life with someone that has a certain level of dignity.
2006-06-30 12:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why was he doing that ? If he trying to make things meet, or not having a good paying job. Then he needs to get his butt out there, and look for a better one.
To me, it kinda cruel out there posing as a homeless guy, no matter if he was in uniform. Then what to think about the people, who give him money thinking he was homeless as well. Not knowing he had a home, clothes, food, and a roof over his head.
He should be ashame of himself doing that.
Talk to him about that, if he wants to keep doing. Or you find him ut there again on the streets. Then dump his butt. Let him panhandling being single.
Find a guy, who got a job who don't need to panhandling for money.
2006-06-30 20:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how much money did he get when he gets home. He ask from where and then you let him know that you saw him panhandling. Notice if he is actting funny, drunk or on drugs. See what he says. Ask him what he does with this money. Tell him to go get areal job instead of doing that. People YOU know are going to see him and think bad about you too.
2006-06-30 19:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by Catfishchic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably time to find a new boyfriend! You should ask him about it though in very general questions so it is harder to lie. Ask him where he was this afternoon, and if he lies, confront him. Say 'I saw you here" and then wait for his answer. Later, ask what he's been doing with the money and how long he has been doing it. Be VERY careful to catch him in any lies because most likely, it is time to dump him.
2006-06-30 19:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a woman. approach him calmy and ask him whats going on. If he hesistates ask again. If he doesnt seem to want to answer, go get a butcher knife out the kitchen and act crazy. Trust me, he WILL answer you then. I am a black woman and thats how I handle my man. He know not to mess wit me. I GOT HIM IN CHECK.
2006-06-30 19:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by D Mack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for someone to panhandle it has to be in public..Ask him where the money is going,then you decide what you want to do about it. Communication,I can't express that enough,it's vital to any kind of relationship.....................
2006-06-30 19:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask him y hes doing it and if he lies to u and says he isn't then break up with him because if he can't tell u the truth then hes not a good bf
2006-06-30 19:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by roxei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a hooker so he doesn't have to denegrate himself doing something so low as panhandling
2006-06-30 19:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up. If you stick with this guy, this is what your future will look like. You need to dump him NOW.
2006-06-30 19:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by cliffinutah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... Thats so f*cked up!!! You have to confront him... why would someone do something like that if they werent homeless - - - - -i think you need to get rid of this guy!!
2006-06-30 19:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by kjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋