There are so many persons whomi know who still love the person who ditched them. I can understand their love but pray tell me how long are they goin to keep doin it. Cant they have a life of their own. How many days will they cry and suffer in the night when all around them ppl are laughin and being merry.. How long will they stay like this... cant they understand tat human emotions are the most valuable thing tat can be given to a person and they are wastin on someone whos jus not worth tat... and in the process ignore whomever likes them ... makin the other person like as they are now... when will they realise this....
2006-06-30 12:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by Ajay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u love someone truly deeply madly than its impossible to forget him tat to knowing tht u were not at fault...if u love someone set it free if it come back it was yours if not than it was never meant to be...... this sayin is easy to Say but i know ....when the persons leave it leave nothing behing...just pain tears and..nothing else...u feel rejected and imagine if u come to know the reason sometime later tht ur love let u for someone else than the pain is doulbe ...imaging ur love in the arms of someone else....sometimes u will recover...and some times ull not be able to move on cause u feel finished..u feel nothing anymore...no love no pain nothing..what will i do say naa...but am not saying ull never come out of it yah u will but just need time...... donno how much but time is what needed here.....cuz we say time is the best medicine......sometimes scar takes yrs to heal but once heales than nevr get resurrected.....so just leave it on da time and everything will be fine....
2006-07-01 09:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy or woman would not experience comparable to you regrettably. you will never understand except you have seen the "dumper's" point of view. I wager that guy or woman never gave you any solutions, however the respond is of their strikes and not their words. That guy or woman is a coward via being selfish via no longer imparting you with closure. keeping off the project isn't the terrific suited component to do. Its a selfish component to do to sidestep each and all of the drama of a wholesome breakup.
2016-11-01 00:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to move on. Researchers said normal time for people to grieve is at least 6 months. or they need to get busy and keep their minds of their exs. It just like scar, wound can heal but it always leaves the scar..won't go away just fading overtime
2006-06-30 12:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard....believe me. Been there, done that. Long story, short version. My ex-husband left me for my best friend. DOUBLE REJECTION! Also have two beautiful children to remind me every day. But, you have to move on. It takes longer for some to accept that. My strenghth is my kids. Just be as supportive as you can, because one day that person WILL remember that.
2006-06-30 12:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by dmblaise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force the road to recovery. Everyone takes breakups differently. It can be very traumatizing to some people, and they might need a year or even longer to get over what happened. Don't force them to get over it, it's natural to be upset.
2006-06-30 12:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are humans, not robots. I wish we could turn off useless emotions at will. Wouldn't that be a great talent?
2006-06-30 12:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by percolated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because feeling and emotions don't stop as soon as a relationship does. but you must realize and pretty much everyone does, life really does go on.
2006-06-30 12:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by btre22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that you're a guy, you have no emotions. Girls get very emotionally attached and guys are normally only physically attached.
2006-06-30 12:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess because they felt like they have been jipped.... they want answers instead of hearing just because.... and they really didnt want out of the relationship in the first place...
2006-06-30 12:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they really did think it was love,then its really hard for them to ge over that person, things lyk that take time
2006-06-30 12:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋