My boyfriend cheated 3 times and the last time i end it but i miss him and since then he hasnt seen anyone should i go back or should i find someone better
LADYS HELP
MEN why do you guys cheat
2006-06-30 12:19:08 · 25 answers · asked by babyanjels420 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ History
find someone better, hes done it three times, hell keep doing it, he knows he can get away with it if you keep letting him, go out with some friends, find some new guys to talk to, get to know some of them first, take your time
Cause most guys are dogs, for the men answers, until they get caught and relize what they had and lost.
2006-06-30 12:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by micmes2000 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love the term cheat.
He cheated on me.
I didn't know that people were a test.
Should you go back to him?
That is up to you and to him and to circumstances beyond your control.
Why do men cheat?
For the same reason women do. They want more. They see an opportunity and they take it.
You ended this relationship thrice. I say you never ended it once. If you go back you prove me right. If you don't you still prove me right because this is the first time you didn't go back.
History has a tendency of repeating itself.
If he "cheated on you" only once that would be reason enough to doubt his fidelity.
I doubt it, and I don't even know him.
Should you find another person?
Only if you don't want to go back to him. The more you put between you and him the more there will be.
In short, if you care for him, be honest with him and trust he will do the same. If you don't trust him, then either care more or walk away.
2006-06-30 20:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, we cheat for the very same reasons girls cheat. We think "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence". I know. I've done my cheating in my life, sad to say. But just today I was helping my son, a soldier in Iraq, deal with his girlfriend over here as he found out she was two-timing him. And he and I came to the same conclusion: DTB; also known as "Ditch the B---h!" Your boyfriend needs ditching to make him wake up. You and he will find good people as time goes on. That's just how life goes on. You may feel the pain of loss and separation, also a part of life, but no excuse to walk back into the same ol' sh-t. Stand tall, young lady. I respect those who stood up to me, no matter how painful it was to me. I never respect a wimpy woman. You need love that has respect deeply ingrained in it, or you don't need what someone tells you is love at all!! I tell my daughter the same thing!! God Bless you.
2006-06-30 19:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that your feelings are trying to over rule your brain. I know you don't want to hear this; I wouldn't either, but:
HE A JERK.
Hasn't he proved himself unloyal. You feelings are coming up with excuses; "well he hasn't dated anyone since" as soon as you get back together, he'll do it again. That's a fact. Deep inside you know that, but you don't want to believe. It. Face the facts. He is what he is and that's what he is. Your going to have to face it and move on. He isn't the guy for you. He doesn't love you, if he did he wouldn't cheat. Know y men cheat? Because they find things in other women appealing; more so than their g/f or wife. LEt your brains win, not your emotions.
2006-06-30 19:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by nancythemysterysolver123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The patterns that are set up early on in a relationship, are the patterns that will persist throughout your time together. If he cheated, don't go back to him. Look at his actions, not his words. One time might have been a mistake, and he might have learned from it. Three times is a pattern. Find someone who treats you with more respect than that.
2006-06-30 19:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated before, chances are very good he will cheat again! Move on and find someone better.
2006-06-30 19:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Terisu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because if he cheated on you once...no three times!!! He will cheat on you again. Plus you going back will be syaing " its okay for you to cheat on me because I'll just let it slide, and come back to you." Find someone else, who loves you and would never cheat on you.
2006-06-30 19:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by angel_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad thing is, even though you may miss him, someone who would cheat just has that kind of personality and is likely to do it again. He has had enough chances and he blew it. Don't cause yourself future stress, find someone deserving of you.
2006-06-30 19:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dayum that's cold ****. not everyone cheats and it ain't jus men, maybe you jus got the wrong person in ya program. if i'm in a committed relationship i wouldn't mess with someone after they cheated on me once, but everyone different. i'd say it normal to miss someone u got history with, but u should check out other options and new experiences. u might be surprised to find yaself not missin him as much in a while. treal talk.
2006-06-30 19:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by guttahchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat because women keep taking them back. You've done it three times and are considering doing it again.
2006-06-30 19:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋