i am already popular but i want to be the most popular girl in school! HELP!
2006-06-30 12:19:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I personally think you should settle for what you have all ready. Trying to get more popular might, and will probably end in disaster.
Most popular girl in school? It won't matter a few years from now. Settle for what you have. Popularity isn't about pretty clothes, money and friends, it's about confidence. And reading your question, you don't seem to have too much confidence in yourself about this situation. Just listen to me now, stay who you are, like who you are. DON'T try to be the most popular girl in school.
2006-06-30 12:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Popularity is not everything it's cracked up to be, so be careful. There are a lot of things that are more important than being popular, like being yourself and helping others. However, if you're set on becoming the most popular, I have several tips:
1. Be yourself. Nobody really likes a phony.
2. Listen. People like you when you care.
3. Help others. Enough said.
4. Be as smart as you can. It's not cool to be stupid.
5. Smile a lot. Don't be fake about it, but a smile helps to brighten people's days.
6. Dress nicely. By that I mean wear clean clothes and look presentable, not spend half of the gross national product of Rwanda on clothes.
I hope that helps.
2006-06-30 19:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A LIFE! There are so many things more important than your popularity!!! You are too self-absorbed and hopefully something will happen that will bring you down a notch or two. Once you leave school, you're going to enter the REAL world where no one knows you or gives a darn how popular you were in school. Start thinking about other people and what you can do to elevate them. It's NOT all about you. Have you fainted yet?
2006-06-30 19:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite what people say the "nerds" or smart people may not seem popular BUT everyone knows them. So if your already popular, do what you can too become grade wise one of the best. Plus it;s always good too have good grades. If you already have good grades, then join every sports team possible. If you already did that, well...umm...be hott? If your that then consider yourself VERY lucky lol....p.s...the highschool popular stuff ENDS graduation day..and it always seems the most popular have it the worst.
2006-06-30 19:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by tampabay5400 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give away money. Seriously, dont wish that, because when You are on top the only way to go is down. It is good to always strive to be better at what You are good at. Never assume You know everything. But dont walk around like " Oh! Im just so popular"
2006-06-30 19:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be positive minded, smile. Be the listener. A good listener is popular.
Why do you want to be the most popular? Sounds like you have an insecure personality.
If you can count two really good friends you are doing very well.
2006-06-30 19:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about whether you are popular and you will be popular.
2006-06-30 19:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this book: "How to win friends and influence people for teen girls".
After reading this my friendships and relationships were way better!
2006-07-01 21:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by watchlearnlive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile to every one
talk with every one
2006-06-30 19:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by mrad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy...just have sex with everyone.
2006-06-30 21:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by dani 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋