Is this bad...?
I am 24 years old and I stay home Monday through Sunday night at night not during the day. Anyways, I am unemployed, have no boyfriend, no friends. I am going to school right now, and I am trying to find a job. Right now I live with my parents and dont have a car. I had to go to go to work early out of highschool, becuase my dad lost his job several years ago. Hes fine now he has a job and everything, but my life feels like it is on the slooooow track. Is this bad?
2006-06-30 12:13:11 · 15 answers · asked by sunflowergal257 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Has anyone been through something like this?
2006-06-30 12:16:35 · update #1
No its not bad, just take one day at a time, first dedicate your time on finding a job, finish school, and save your money to buy a car, and once all that goes through you will be in fact on your feet, i know it sucks i went through the same thing, no friends no boyfriend, no car, just school i felt like crap, but i found a job, saved money, got a simple 95 cavelier, and met friends at school, went clubbin, and found my boyfriend through the internet and im happy now, what im saying is that lil by lil if your patient everything will fall into place. Im talking with experience, im not just saying this to say this.
2006-06-30 15:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 8⤊ 1⤋
I don't know that it's necessarily bad, but it doesn't sound fun at all. I suggest that you get out and go dancing or rollerskating or something in your free time. That way you can have fun and maybe even meet a significant other. As for a job, the local want ads are always a start. Also, the car may not be a problem, especially if you have a bike and/or live in an area that offers public transportation.
2006-06-30 19:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The place your life is at now is not a problem in itself, it sounds like it's not something you were in a position to change. The important part is that you sound like you're already changing it (going to school, looking for work). Take those tasks seriously and make yourself marketable. Know that you will work well given the opportunity.
It sounds like your lack of a social life bothers you. Try meeting new people at your place of study -- that might help. If potential friends respond negatively to you, keep trying but look at the way you present yourself. Be confident and friendly. Don't slouch. Smile. Don't agree with everything, you have a unique opinion of your own, and that is what makes you interesting.
2006-06-30 19:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by 876 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy okay ...it's cool u know what u r so young and u go to school first of smile in school make friends in class and participate in school go to the career center in school and ask them about jobs available make friends by been u'reself and nice ...exchange numbas and don't stay at home no no no walk around ..bike ..or jog u know secondly the way you dress is important and u would have a car soon if u really chase the job well there's also snagajob,monster etc open u'reself and smile damn don't feel bad it's okay
2006-06-30 19:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful you have a family and that you were able to help them when there was need and now they are fine again. My opinion it is better to take life slow. That way you have more time to enjoy life and to think out things instead of making rush, snap decisions. As far as going out at night, it depends on what your interested in. My father told me when I was younger that "snakes crawl at night" and his other saying was "if you don't want trouble, then don't go where trouble is". If you use your head and not your emotions then the car and bf will come at the right time. Don't be in such a hurry.
2006-06-30 19:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by JohnyReb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're life's not bad. In 15-20 years, you'd be glad just to have some of the peace and quiet you have now. Once you get your job, you'll be starting new friendships. And once you are in your 30's you'll realize how good it was to start out on a solid footing. Guys are a dime a dozen and you'll have plenty of time to pick out one that's great for you.
2006-06-30 19:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Poncho Rio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've kinda been through the same situation. I had finally found a job in my job field then they accused me of lying even though I didnt so they fired me. It took me another month to 2 months to get another job. Finally I had to go to a job agency. When I didn't have a job a felt isolated and like I didnt have any friends. Just keep going and rely on God he will get you thru this time.
2006-06-30 19:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Behind These Hazel Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I'm 25 and I spent a lot of time in a similar situation. It may seem like forever but you'll get there. Just make sure that you keep your life on track. It'll seem a lot slower if you have to start over.
2006-06-30 19:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by happy_fairy_gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself are you doing your best I bet you are so take it slow as you call itand eventually a fter school your get a great job and great car and place to live and you 'llbe indepedent so be thankful you have great parents to help lol good luck
2006-06-30 19:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, i dropped out to work and im now in law enforcement, im only 23. make your own fun. meet some guys and live it up. i just recently broke up with my girlfriend and i met a new philly last night. dont hold yourself back. get a job, get some doe, get it movin
2006-06-30 19:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by getmerkd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋