I have been with my boifriend for 5 years and 5 months 2 days ago. I recived a call from a girl saying that she had slept with him and that they dated for 3 months and he broke up with her because he still loved me she went into alot of detail. I confronted him and he said that he has never been with anyone since we started dating. The truth of it all is that everything this person told me is stuck in my head, I have a feeling that it could be true but I don't know give me your opinion..Should I trust him or not?
2006-06-30 12:07:02 · 5 answers · asked by jmtrvg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK....here's the deal. You got a call from a complete stranger talking trash and he's denying it. Let it go, honey....for the moment...and keep you eye out for any action that's he's up to. Should you trust him??? I don't know...maybe someone was pulling your chain; or maybe he did do something he's sorry for. Either way....start fresh and keep your nose to the ground. If you even get a wiff that he is cheating, drop him like a hot potato! For the moment...act like it's all over. Cause if you pressure him, he's going to do something you really won't like. It's like "since you're always accuring me, I might as well do it"....male logic, or something. Good luck.
2006-06-30 12:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to analyse things that she said to you. You've known this man for over 5 years, you know his habits, what he likes, distinguishing marks, his dislikes, did she say anything factual? Something that could discredit what she said, or was it more generalized. Did she say anything that only someone who has been intimate with you boyfriend would know? Take a little time to think it out without stressing yourself to much. Do you know of anyone who would want to play a joke and hurt you like that?
You will know in your gut whether it is true or not. Just look him in the eye, ask him something specific and watch his body language, If he is lying, he won't be able to look at you, he will touch his mouth/nose/ears etcwhen he is answering, he oculd be pulling at his collar, fidgeting. You will just know.
2006-06-30 12:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was able to give you detailed info, chances are they had something going on. The choice is yours to stay or leave, but he needs to come clean before you two are able to move on. One thing I have discovered is that women are not going to lie about who they sleep with. Do you think she wants to be labeled a HO.
2006-06-30 12:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by LaVonda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl It's always better to try and believe in your man, cause if he didn't want to be with you than he wouldn't be but if you really think he cheated (which it sounds like he did) and you feel like you can't trust him anymore, than there is no point in staying in your relationship. Good luck girl
2006-06-30 12:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by btre22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been able to trust him about other parts of the relationship? if not dont trust him now. you will have to sit and think of what you feel in your heart. remember, once a liar always a liar.
2006-06-30 12:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋