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The home I live in is horrible! I AM A SLAVE! Dad sleeps all day & works all night. Mom works all day & sleeps all night. I get stuck with everythin. I have 2 sisters and a brother. 14, 11, and 5 in the order. They make messes all day. While I clean their messes up. They wont clean up after themselves & I get yelled at for the house being a mess, I get blamed for it being dirty. I do dishes 4 times a day and clean the livingroom & kitchen a good 3 each. They wont help. I have told dad I need them to help me, he doesnt say anythin just keeps watchin TV. Mom, they dont listen to her. I remeber having an argument with her & I ended up somehow hitting my head on the fridge. I dont remember how but I went to go back into my room & fell to the floor. Mom walks up to me kicking & screaming -get the **** up off the goddamn floor & stop acting so ******* stupid.- I couldnt move. Things like that are why I want to move in with my boyfriend. His mom/dad were the ones that offered me to stay there

Answer 1

I moved out at 16 went to Alaska worked on a fishing boat it ain't easy I also traveled across Canada before returning to California
In the end you gotta do what you gotta do
If you were a bit older the Military is a good place to get a start away from home no bills to worry about always a roof over your head and a hot meal.
After 3 years of working like a slave to support myself I signed up did 3 years got married they payed from my education I have a BSc. live in England and run my own business.
But if I had to do it all over I might have joined the air force but I have to say my army buddies are more like family and any family I ever had I haven't spoken to some of my cousins in 15-20 years but I never let a month go by with out catching up with my comrades at arms
Plus in uniform everyone pulls their own weight no ones slacks.
Makes work for the hard working easy and easy work for the slackers hard.
Plus gets you away from home and everyone respects you for doing it.
It's hard but fun I would not trade my 12 years of service for anything.
or there is Youth corps in the US go away for a few months and do work training you get paid and they feed and house you.
the Non military option there are all kinds of jobs in youth corps from heavy equipment operator to legal assistant at least there was when I was that age. may have changed.
but at 17 they can't really drag you back home.
I will be a bit scary at first but do it just be safe and have a back up plan. Always have a back up plan.
Hope that helps.

Answer 2

I grew up in a ****-hole and this sounds worse. So there are only two things you can do - stay or leave. If you stay I hope you will let someone know what is happening in your home so that someone can help you get things right - there are people who can help you, believe me! But if you leave, please go to a place where you know you will be safe and looked after, even if it is a friend's house don't worry about what they might think of you just think about your own future and happiness, I know its **** to talk about your own parents in a negative way because they are all you have ever known. But talking about it might help them to come back to normal again, and be how you want them to be. It doesn't always happen, but I wish I had told someone long ago, I think my parents would have been better parents then.

Sorry if I'm rambling, but I think you know what I mean.

Answer 3

You deserve better than this - you are nobodys slave - nobodys babysitter - nobodys cleaner.

This is an abuse which you cannot allow to continue, talk to the authorities - get these leaches off of your back and rebuild your self respect. I just sincerely hope your boyfriend is a good guy and can support you through this.

Answer 4

I would say that you need to call social services, or talk to your guidance counselor at school. Moving in with a boyfriend just to get away is not always a good thing to do.

Answer 5

How old are you?

I think you should talk to another family member maybe aunt. uncle, grandma get them to have a word with your parents. Your parents must be having a tough time bringing up so many kids. i doubt that they are working because they enjoy it, maybe they are having money problems. Chances are their hating life as it is as well.
Don't give up on them, give it time. Pray to God.

Answer 6

GET OUT QUICK ... you are being overworked and undervalued .... possibly, in a way, being abused. If you are old enough to leave, and you have somewhere to go, you simply gotta do it. You cannot go on being a doormat in a situation that stinks! Your parents need a short, sharp shock and you can give it to them! Simply go and go now!

Answer 7

u should'nt do everything and maybe u need 2 move on so go and live wae ur bf and let ur family tidy the house without u u need 2 rest have fun wae ur bf

Answer 8

Move out! and stay outta there! they can't make you work that much! they have to do their part too. move out for a while, see if they beg you to come back,and make them pay you! good way to get some extra $$$!

Answer 9

Move out sweetheart, let these lazy pigs live in their own ****---they made the mess, leave them to live in it. Vey good luck to you.

Answer 10

Take your b/f parents advise and live with them, its gonna make your own parents see what they have taken for granted...