I participated for 3 1/2 years and losat a marriage and a boyfriend at the same time when it came to an end. That was 20 years ago. My boyfriend spends allof our fantasy - play talk on orgy/party/DP related. All of it. I also instigated, because I wanted to PLEASE him. Should I be willing to give him to other women for that, and move on, or stay with him because I love him as a lover and best friend who lies. Over stupid crap. {He doth protesteth much too much}
2006-06-30 11:29:36 · 10 answers · asked by catnappin9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, love is a two way street which consists of respect, committment and honor. You must always be true to yourself. Until you are you will never find the happiness you seek. There is much more to a relationship then sex. A healthy relationship consists of two people who love each other unconditionally. Unconditionally means there are no conditons placed on the relationship. Which means the survival of your relationship or your mates faithfulness shouldn't hinder on you performing, three ways, orgies or any other weird or ungodly sex games you aren't confortable with. There is nothing wrong with you for wanting a normal, healthy relationship. It appears that your mate certainly appears to have some issues. Some people seem to confuse sex with love. Sex and love are two totally different things. My advice to you is to be true yourself. If being true to yourself means ending the relationship, then so be it. Love is something that is unconditional and it appears to me that your boyfriend has yet to understand the meaning of the word. Good luck. I will be praying for you.
2006-06-30 11:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest here, honey. Think about yourself. Is this hurting your feelings? And do you honestly believe that hes faithful if he wants to sleep with others (even if you are involved in it). Im sorry to say it like that. But I think you should kick him to the curb. No self respecting woman would let herself be pushed aside for another to have sex with her man. Plus if he lies to you about stupid crap- who knows what else he's hiding from you. Do what you think is right in your heart. Dont let yourself get hurt. You can do soooo much better than that!
Cheer up. Im sure there's plenty of guys that would worship you for who you are, and never ask for more from you than to just be yourself.
Take care
Niki
2006-06-30 11:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Niki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he lies then it isnt worth it, if u r married u shouldnt have to do anything u dont want to n if he still wants to be with a 3some n u dont then u need to move on. love will turn in hate if u dont then it will get real ugly.
2006-06-30 11:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldnt have to do those kinda things to please him !
He should respect you enough to let you have your opinion and individuality. Sex I believe is suposed to sacred between TWO people. NOT three at one time!
I say go with what YOU want and not him. If he does not like it and flips out over it, then you deserve better. heck you deserve better anyways! ^^
2006-06-30 11:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Branwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything your gut is telling you not to do. Listen to your gut at all times. It's always right. If you don't know how...it's time to learn girl. :)
2006-06-30 11:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you won't enjoy it ....Don't do it. If you think it would be fun....then go for it. Leave him out ...you decide. Sounds like he is about ready to split anyway.
2006-06-30 11:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you are doing the right thing by respectin yourself.
2006-06-30 11:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay because of that...u have to make urself happy....screw him
2006-06-30 11:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by daddys_girl0069 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say, NO , that's UN- natural
2006-06-30 11:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by BHANU V. RAVAL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2006-06-30 11:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by betsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋