i m married woman n in volve with my husband childhood friend.as he is very vlunrable .he was abuse by his parents nhis finding very hard build stable relation ship with any woman.i listen his problem n empthise with him.but then he start loving me.i told him i love my husband n no matter what i m not going to leave him.he said he think a lot n come to me as he know that if told my husband he will loose me as a good person n he will loose his friend.one day we get emotional n we ended in bed.from now on i alwyas avoid alone movment with him.my husbund is so inocent n had no idea.i want to just good friend with my husband friend.i do not want any fight between them.my husband think i m befriending with him as i work as be friender with woman who depress n have domestic violance issue.please help me on this issue n if my husbund find out he gona forgive me as he know this is my frist n last mistake.we love eachother so much.please give yr view i will respect.
2006-06-30 11:03:33 · 11 answers · asked by rani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How good of you to give your time to others. Unfortunately sometimes others take advantage of us. In the heat of the moment you both fell into the trap of thinking the 'moment' will eliminate all ills, obviously it hasn't. The best thing to do is to tell your husbands childhood friend that you are happy to listen to his problems but nothing must ever happen between you again or you will have to stop seeing him. Tell him you and your husband value his friendship, but you must both not disrespect your husband.
2006-06-30 12:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Curious39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hie, you have placed yourself in a very difficult situation. You were wrong to sleep with this friend. He is not a good friend coz he took advantage of the situation. The best thing is to tell your hubby and if it means cutting all ties with this friend so be it.
2006-06-30 11:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose your husband's friend and fast.
I am shocked that a woman who has heard as many sob stories as you have has fallen for the oakey doke of manipulation behind one of them.
I seriously question your ability to do your job as a domestic violence counselor.
And if you are also a parent I feel sorry for your children . . .
Have respect for your husband and thereby gain respect for yourself.
2006-06-30 11:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by treeof knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create a 2nd yahoo account with husbands name that is accessible?
2016-11-15 19:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Gardie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay faraway from her. She sounds like a psycho. end bugging your BF with your jealousy, until eventually you somewhat and really imagine he's doing something incorrect. If he's not any longer doing something incorrect, nagging him with jealousy would make him do something. you in person-friendly words could believe your man or woman judgment, which i comprehend is complicated.
2016-10-14 00:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband spanking for being bad ?
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2017-02-13 18:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Beverly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom always told me growing up that you can leave a man for many reasons but never leave a man fo another man. That is so weak.
2006-06-30 11:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy*lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guy 2 bad boy???
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