2006-06-30 10:53:59 · 70 answers · asked by steph1632003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course you should....I understand you may have to work or you have to stay homebound and it would be hard to accompany him on this vacation.......but it's bad manners on his part...after all your still newlyweds....he should wait til you also get free time.
2006-06-30 11:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jedi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 23:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, give me more info. You say by himself....literally, or is this something that him and a group of his buds do every year?
If that's the case, telling him he can't is going to cause a lot of trouble, especially since if you've known him long enough you know it's their ritual.
If that isn't the case, then tell him sure, as long as he leaves you the credit card, and has no problem with you being in the spot of your choice. Keep it equally distanced...if you live in new Jersey, then don't tell him you're going to Europe, keep it real.
If he says sure, go on the vacation, have the time of your life, then when you both get back, tell him you hope he enjoyed it, cause from now on it's family vacations only.
2006-06-30 10:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he went on vacations by himself before you to were married and he was still good enough for you to marry him, then what's the problem? I do think he should take you with him. But there are going tobe time's when you don't want to go on vacation with him also. Everyone needs space and time alone. Let him go and trust him. You shouldn't have married a man you have to keep an eye on.
2006-06-30 10:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been married for a little over two years and I can't think of any reason why I would want to go on a vacation without her, nor she without me. But that's just us. I know other couples who go on separate vacations for various reasons - they both work and can't get the same time off, etc., and it seems to work out fine for them. However, if this issue really bothers you, try discussing it with him - find out why (if you can) he doesn't want to take you along. Or, you might try telling him: "That's fine if you want to vacation in Miami by yourself, as long as I can go on vacation to _____________ (fill in the blank with some place you would like to go on vacation) while you are gone" and just see what his reaction is. At any rate, there sounds like there are some trust issues involved with this situation. Best of luck to you.
2006-06-30 11:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by BRIAN W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually when you are married you go on vacation together. I'm not sure that I would want my husband going on vacation by himself- specially to Miami...
2006-06-30 10:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by ~LovinCowboys~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust him? If so, then there is no problem. But if you don't then maybe it's best you speak up and voice your concerns. Hopefully he'll be respectful to your opinions.
I am currently married for 9 months and can't find any reason why my husband would want to take a vacation without me. I think I would be more hurt than suspicious...
2006-06-30 10:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there should be a situation of letting or not letting your spouse doing something. Although if he is taking vacation without you after 7 months that could be a problem
2006-06-30 11:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by jcire17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a question of you letting him, it's a question of after being married only 7 months why does he need a vacation to ANYWHERE by himself? You need to ask some serious questions.
2006-06-30 10:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever given you any reason not to trust him? ANd one more important question... would he let you go to Miami by yourself? If you don't trust him, you could always buy a seperate plane ticket to go check out the situation by your self, beware though. You need to be undercover because if you find out he is doing nothing you might be headed for a divorce but if you catch him doin something, then that was a trip worth taking!
2006-06-30 10:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by lil am_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO, a married person should vacation with their spouse, no matter how long the marriage is. I would be really wondering why he wanted to vacation alone too!!! Does he wanna hang with his buddies?? Well, if so, ya mix buddies & alcohol & ya could end up with bigger issues, like other women!! Nahhhhh, he should be asking you to go with him!!! If he goes alone, I bet the marriage will NOT last 4ever because you will always wonder what he did while away from you & it will KILL the marriage. Good luck!!
2006-06-30 11:09:29 · answer #11 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋