Well, in the first place it definitely shows the character of the man. The man obviously believes that murdering his own innocent child is just fine if it suits his own selfish interests. What would your reaction be if a man asked his girlfriend or wife to kill their one-month-old infant? It's the same thing. A man like this isn't worth speaking to, much less dating or marrying.
Secondly, it shows that he doesn't really care about his girlfriend or wife, because abortion can cause her serious physical and emotional harm and even death.
Real men protect their women and children.
For more information, see:
Information on all aspects of abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos of abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A four-minute, must-see video on abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Photos and facts about prenatal development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
Pain perception in the unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40
Abortion deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, confidential help at a pregnancy center near you (referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Support for pregnant teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
2006-07-01 02:34:21
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answered by Anonymous
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ask him to have a period, see what he says, some man don't realize that we already do enough for them and they still dare to ask those kind of questions, so be a woman and stand up for your kid here's something to think about:
Body: Month One
Mommy
I am only 8 inches long
but I have all my organs.
I love the sound of your voice.
Every time I hear it
I wave my arms and legs.
The sound of your heart beat
is my favorite lullaby.
Month Two
Mommy
today I learned how to suck my thumb.
If you could see me
you could definitely tell that I am a baby.
I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though.
It is so nice and warm in here.
Month Three
You know what Mommy
I'm a boy!!
I hope that makes you happy.
I always want you to be happy.
I don't like it when you cry.
You sound so sad.
It makes me sad too
and I cry with you even though
you can't hear me.
Month Four
Mommy
my hair is starting to grow.
It is very short and fine
but I will have a lot of it.
I spend a lot of my time exercising.
I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes
and stretch my arms and legs.
I am becoming quite good at it too.
Month Five
You went to the doctor today.
Mommy, he lied to you.
He said that I'm not a baby.
I am a baby Mommy, your baby.
I think and feel.
Mommy, what's abortion?
Month Six
I can hear that doctor again.
I don't like him.
He seems cold and heartless.
Something is intruding my home.
The doctor called it a needle.
Mommy what is it? It burns!
Please make him stop!
I can't get away from it!
Mommy! HELP me!
Month Seven
Mommy
I am okay.
I am in Jesus's arms.
He is holding me.
He told me about abortion.
Why didn't you want me Mommy?
Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.
2006-06-30 17:57:57
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answered by lf 3
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OK, now it's time for a lesson on life and living. Hope I have everyone's attention,as for I am probably about to piss someone off, but I could care less.
First off, abortion to me is murder, and it is a shame that I can go out and kill a man/woman, or many people, and I get tried and sentenced for my actions. All because I took another person's life I will either be sentenced to death or be imprisoned for life. No questions asked. SO, why is it any different that if I have an abortion that I wouldn't be guilty of the same thing?? I have heard time and time again that a fetus is not a living thing; therefore you are not killing it. To me, that is the biggest crock of crap I have ever heard, and sounds more like an excuse to me than the truth. From the time the sperm fertilizes the egg, and conception is brought about, it is a LIVING THING. Doubt it as you may, but that is a fact!!! Let me ask you all this. How would you all like to have your arms and legs literally ripped from your body while you screamed in agony for no one to hear your cries!!?? How would you like the fragile little brain you have inside your little head be crushed by a spineless individual that has no concern of your existence?? I encourage all of you to witness an abortion, or see one being performed on many of the tapes that are readily available today. I guarantee you that you will change your mind on the thoughts that you may have, and I guarantee you that it will sicken you to the point of nausea.
I know that the subject comes up about rape, incest, or something of that nature. All I can say to that is I know that you didn't ask for it to happen, but think about this. Did the baby ask for it to happen either?? Doesn't that baby deserve a chance to live, even if not with you?? Adoptive parents are numerous, and will jump at the chance to have a child they can call their own. I know that sometimes fear, and other factors play a role in the final decision, but who let's the baby have a say in the matter??
I believe that if a man(boy) can't accept the responsibility for his actions, then he is truly not a man. A real man would own up to his obligations, and would strive to do anything in his power to see that both the mother and child were taken care of. If a man doesn't want to be with a woman anymore just because he got her pregnant then that man needs a swift kick in the head as for he is defying what the rules of being a man is set to be. I know that there are other factors involved that would cause a man to want to bail out on her, but the fact of the matter is that he is going to have to pay for the upbringing of the child whether he is in their life or not. Why not enjoy the gift from God that was given to him through "love"?? After all, no one forced him to have sex, and no one forced him to "love" her either, but it is mighty funny how the love suddenly ceases to exist once the word of pregnancy is mentioned. So, to all men out there, prove to the world that you are a man, and take responsibility for your actions, and do the right thing.
Abortion is murder no matter how you look at it, and if I remember correctly, that was one of the commandments - Thou shalt not kill.
2006-06-30 22:09:01
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answered by iiboogeymanii 4
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If that man is not ready to be a good father, He should let the woman know and she can take it from there. It is her body and her decision though. That will atleast let her know where you stand. Some guys are to scared to say that and they let the woman go on with her pregancy and just completely ignores her and their baby. Some goes as far as to deny that the woman is pregnant by them, just because they are not ready to become a father.
Some are going to crush you for this question, but he is human just as they are and I hope he learn from this and wear a jimmy next time.
If he's not ready for a child more than likely that child is not ready for him. It can hurt a little now or alot later.
2006-06-30 17:59:37
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answered by roadrunner 2
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It's only fair...to ask. To insist would be selfish and borderline crazy. There lies the difference.
If I were a dude that was not ready for children and still wanted to remain sexually active - I would have my partners sign a contract to agree with my terms as a man not wanting to raise children. Sometimes men find themselves in situations where the birth control was not affective (it happens all the time) and now he has less options than his partner.
2006-06-30 18:14:50
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answered by himselfswife 1
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I think that men who ask women to have abortions are doing it for purely selfish reasons. Why else would a man care? He'll lose his girlfriend to a baby, who will have her undivided attention for the next 18 years, lol. He won't be having sex as often. His lifestyle will change. Selfishness and stupidity.
2006-06-30 22:08:16
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answered by brevejunkie 7
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just dont do it. HOnestly, I think that when a woman is in a situation like that, you should never try to take charge or make her feel like she has no say in it, and it might make her feel more confused about it. If she asks what you think she should do, then answer honeslty, give her all of her choices, but kinda hint to abortion. And if she gets mad she mgiht just have the baby in spite of you.
2006-06-30 17:56:53
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answered by Jessica 4
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If a man asks a woman and the woman agrees I suppose it's OK (except I don't think it is), but if a man asks a woman, but the woman doesn't want to kill the child, then the man can just sod off.
2006-06-30 17:56:07
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answered by Mummy of 2 7
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I think it is inconsiderate....if a man only knew what it was like to carry another life inside of them, they would NEVER ask a woman to do that!! And besides, a guy can ask all he wants, it is the woman that is going to make the final decision on the matter!
2006-06-30 18:09:13
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answered by Anonymous
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In some cases it is an opinion that you should listen to. If the man knows that he WILL NOT PROVIDE for her or the child it is a responsible thing to do. If more men would fess up, hey I don't want this and I WONT help, there would be alot more happy mama's and babies!
2006-06-30 18:14:34
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answered by living this life 2
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