He abuses me horribly and I want to get away from him, especially now that I'm a pregnant teenager, but he threatens me that if I leave him...he'll kill me. I have to wear a camera so he knows what I'm doing all the time so I can't go to the police. He told me that if I go, he'll know and run off then come back later and kill me and family members. I'm scared. Any ideas on how to cope with him or anything that I could do? Now that I'm pregnant, I want these babies to have a chance and I want them so much now!!!
2006-06-30 10:18:41 · 28 answers · asked by phighschoolgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first of all a man that abuses a girl like that is a coward , if u really want your baby to grow up healthy u need to get out now , even tho he is not born yet he can feel and is not good for you and your baby to be in an environment like that.
2006-06-30 10:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the police the threats and everything he has done. Keep it in confidence. I guess if you can email, write...do what you can to keep him from knowing what you're doing (with that camera thing). I had a cousin in a very similar predicament. Unfortunately, don't always take the necessary initiative...but he was scheduled to be 'locked up' a week after the hearing. But she wasn't wise enough to stay away...& he did end up killing her. My advise to you is to let an authority figure know and STAY AWAY.
& take the camera off...
2006-06-30 17:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by livin 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take the camera off and go to the police, if he's made threats to kill you they can arrest him, and he won't be able to kill you or your family. This is a very bad situation and the police are the best ones to help. he DOES NOT LOVE YOU so don't think he does, if he loved you he wouldn't hurt you. he needs some serious help. so go straight away, and if you wear a camera how can you write that without him knowing??
2006-06-30 17:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by annie_4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, do not be ignorant. There is so much help out there for you. Try looking up a womans shelter, they even have women shelters for teens who are pregnant and they have all the help you need and could so desperatly use. Call your local directory and I am sure they can hook you up with the free number to get you started.
As for your baby daddy and his threats, try getting a restraining order.
But try getting a hold of a womens shelter first because they can assist you in all your works.
May God bless you cause you are about to have a rough journey.
2006-06-30 17:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're telling a true story -- Such a person should not be called boyFRIEND. He can't make you wear a camera. Take it off. Go to a magistrate and get a restraining order. And be aware that not only killing you, but THREATENING to kill you is a crime.
If you're a teenage still with your parents - let them know what's going on.
2006-06-30 17:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youir not helping your self if you dont go to the police. where are your parents in all of this? you can go to the police and tell them you are a teenager not an adult and that you life and your babies life is at risk that you need to talk to someone in child services, that you need to be taken out of where you are or you might die. tell the police everything if you have to but make them get someone from children services. tell them you wont leave untill they do if you have to. make sure they know you are serious. forget about the camera and everything just do it. if you need me you know where to find me.
2006-06-30 17:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a psycho!! Talke to your parents about this. Go and stay with them. If he kileed anyone he would be in prison, he just uses that to threaten you. I left an abusive man who held a 357 Magnum to my head and I have not seen him since. I am glad I had the strength to walk away and get on with my life. Don't let him run your life!!
2006-06-30 17:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by smarteepants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're full of it. wear a camera? what are you a slave?
I don't see why you can't go to the police... heck if you can type in here and get away with it, you can e-mail the police.
but I'm guessing you're just bsing.
You say you're pregnant with babies (plural) geez how many?
Some people just can't keep from spreading their legs at every intersection.
2006-06-30 17:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for this, and im more than positive you are still at this point living with your parents. Your parents most likely resent you right now and have heard alot of whining. If you haven't reached this point do tell them, and they will be more than happy to help you. If they have, they won't believe you. Go to the police, because he honestly can't do a damned thing and if he does it's his balls.
2006-06-30 17:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg..idk what to say hun! the only thing i could tell u is that its yor life and u need to break out..does yor family know this?? can u take the camera off? does he go to work?? if so u have a pretty good chance to get in the car and drive to the closest police station! good luck...may god be with u
2006-06-30 17:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by teeny* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋