I think relationships are too much baggage and just want to have sex... does this make me a bad person?? Also where can I go to find a man who shares these same ideas?
2006-06-30 10:08:55 · 40 answers · asked by Apple Pie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm sorry to say this but I just believe that love is an illusion. I am a college graduate student and don't have the time or the energy to "find love"... I'd rather just *****.
2006-06-30 10:24:00 · update #1
It's not wrong to want to be single...but ask yourself why do you just want sex? Is it making you feel liberated? Free? If so, you are doing it for the wrong reasons!
2006-06-30 10:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? Well, I'd say if you have trouble maintaining relationships, it is wrong.
Most people strive to find the one that they will spend the rest of their life with. If you don't feel that way, I'd look into why. Odds are that there is something traumatic that has happened in your life that is causing you to either:
- Aviod relationships
- Avoid love
- Avoid true feelings for a man
- Use sex as a release
Some examples are divorced parents, abuse by a male (sexual or other), loss of a male loved one, etc.
I suspect you have some reason, but only you can answer that.
Oh, and you'll make a lot of male friends on this site... :)
2006-06-30 10:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by lusht 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can find a man like that anywhere, that's all they think about. I disagree with you that relationships are too much baggage, I think you are choosing the wrong men. Save your body for someone who deserves it. Don't just give it away. I wouldn't necessarily say you're a bad person but I think you need to figure out the real reason why you're doing it and deal with that.
2006-06-30 10:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Dree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, there's a lot of people who are the same way as you are. There's nothing wrong with it at all! You're still a good person. Well, I'm sure there are thousands and thousands of men who only want sex (as you probably already know) so it shouldn't be too hard to find! haha.
2006-06-30 10:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by cutestuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope not, I dont like all the meeting family, impressing her friends, birthdays, christmas rubbish.
I like to share some time with a girl in whatever way we see fit.
If it means gettin it on all saturday night and watching DVD's all sunday with a Mcdonalds, then working on the next one so be it.
Every man should have a cache of about 6-8 girls hanging on.
But....
I think every Girl should keep about 10 men stringing along.
You never know when he/she will break up with her boy/girl friend.
2006-06-30 10:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me?? How about try to find a guy that doesn't just want to just have sex. Most men I have been with that is all they want!! Although I will say that is much better than no sex at all - which would be what I am having now.....and it SUCKS!!!!!
2006-06-30 10:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by jewels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god ur are insane sex is part of a relationship if you go for sex only then after a while youll start feeling used .their nothing better then making love to the man you love sex is not just pleasure its a feeling that comes along and if youre just havin sex ur nothing but a hore and ur even shetier then them and atleast they doin it for the money you just givin it out for free and womens like that have no self esttem im not tryin to put you down just givin out examples
2006-06-30 10:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by chichi3985s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? When i was younger I was the exact same way. i had plenty of "booty calls" For me I had guys who were friends who I'd call when i was horny. i liked it that way, I knew them and knew where they'd been and could be myself around. which when it comes to sex the more comfortable you are with your partner the better. so I suggest finding a friend who will be willing to help you out when you're feeling lonely.
2006-06-30 10:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I am in the same boat with you. Lots of guys want just sex. Mostly in their 20's. By 30 I think their biological clocks catch up with them and they are looking to settle down. It's kinda funny, I have always been like this... gee, what's that mean? Fear of commitment? lol WHO CARES????
2006-06-30 10:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by absolutedejavu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you play it safe there is nothing wrong with playing the field, and then some. You should probably look for fun in surrounding areas just so people don't talk.
2006-06-30 10:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋