im scared to tell my girl that im moving cause she will start crying and we've been together since we were 12 and she been there for me and i been there for her what should i do
2006-06-30 09:58:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You think she isn't going to notice when you are not there anymore? Tell her!!
2006-06-30 10:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you and for your girl. If you are old enough right now to be able to go and see her when you can and have the money for it. Keep her by your side. The distance will be an issue but if you truly love her then try. But make sure you never forget to tell her how much you love her, and once in a while send her something through mail. To let her know she will not be forgetten or left behind. If there isn't anymore love left, then don't don't string her along, that is the worse thing you could do to her. This question is so hard to answer cause it makes me realize something in my own similar situation. I wish you luck, and strength to do what you have to do.
2006-06-30 17:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Late-Nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what, she is going to find out. Your best bet would be to tell her right away. Then at least she has a heads up. It sound like you just don't want to hurt her, but if you don't tell her sooner than later, she will be even more upset with the entire situation. Regardless, her feelings will be hurt, so just tell her so she can get use to the fact that you are going to be gone.
2006-06-30 17:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by pinkglitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her. If you two were meant to be, then it will happen. in this day and age, it isn't hard to keep in touch. My husband is deployed to iraq for the second time, for a year. If I can survive so can you. Just let her cry, hug her. If you love her, then treat her like you do. Be honest.
2006-06-30 17:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by la_forestgump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to break it to her gently adn if u 2 were meant t obe she will cry a little bit but she will probably cry because she loves u and u 2 were really meant 2 be
2006-06-30 17:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Louie_Girl_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner the better and she can get the crying over and done. You can stop thinking and worrying about her crying.
2006-06-30 17:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she going to find out when she sees the moving trucks hello? tell her. Be upfront with her she deserves honesty and you to console her in this as well, it will be hard but has to get done. you could always be friends and call or write once in a while;)
good luck with this situation and your move.
2006-06-30 17:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u now. And just tell her that u will see her in a couple of day and that u will call her every night and day
2006-06-30 17:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to tell her , so just do it .
buy her a nice gift as a token of your love and
keep in touch with E-Mail and IM's
2006-06-30 17:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by BONE° 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard man...... but if i were you i would be alone with her and take her hands and brake it down to her and a hug or a kiss something like that. And stay in touch with her.
2006-06-30 17:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you plan on doing then....just disappear one day?
Just tell her. She's going to cry anyway.
2006-06-30 17:02:12 · answer #11 · answered by lc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋