2006-06-30 09:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Of course not! Nothing is wrong with wanting some beautiful baby to love. I have been there, I was very young and had a baby, but the love I needed could not be given back to me. I was not ready to give up my time my things my weight. It seem at first people forget to help out younger people and say the truth, we are so quick to condem. I am a strong women and gave my baby up for adpotion, that's pain.. and a price I paid to have what I wanted when it was not God's timing, now I am married w/son and very happy. I am also much older now. Please think about it your not bad, it's just a little early, right now you have your time and that is something you cant get back or walk away from. God Bless
2006-06-30 10:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by rainheavensgrace 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not exactly wrong to want a child when you r young, but it is not the best thing to do when you r young. There is so much life to live and things to do. Don't give up childhood to soon. I know from experience. I was very young when I got pregnant. When it is time it will happen whether you want it to or not.
2006-06-30 17:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by demanda01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to "get pregnant" or do you want to have a baby, raise it, provide for it, and take full responsibility for another life besides your own? Because if you're ready to do all those things, you're WAY more mature than I was when I was your age! I had my first child at the age of 20 and I was STILL a little too young!
2006-06-30 17:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way: did the kid ask to come here to this world? Probably not. Your choices affect the lives of others, and if there is no way that a child can be supported or raised like a civilized human being, then it's not really fair to the child, is it? They didn't ask to come here. Babies are forced into this world by the decisions their parents make, no matter what age those parents might be. If you're not ready to support a human life, then don't even think for a moment that it's right to satisfy your pleasures for fifteen minutes, because those fifteen or so minutes can cost you eighteen years or more.
2006-06-30 17:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Annabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really i was thinking about wanting a kid a few days ago i am 15 but you have to think b4 you do something like that. you would have to have a bf or fience that would not leave you and has a job you would have to be able to devote about every minute of your life to it and at a young age would you want to give up what you could do like goin out places with friends? so.. yeah i was thinkin bout wantin 1 to and i thought about all that stuff b4 i did it and i decided not to get pregnant. hope this helped if u ever need 2 tlk you can im me my sn on instant messanger is ericsgurl001
2006-07-01 00:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, think of the baby! And if you think getting pregnant is going to keep a guy around your wrong! I to wanted to get pregnant in hopes of keeping a boyfriend when i was 14, I didn't and we broke up. (loser) and now that i.m married, with 2 kids I'm happy that i didn't get pregnant with such a loser.
2006-06-30 17:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your too young ... why jump into parent hood at such a young age ... u have so mich to think bout and when u have a child you jeoperdize all of that ... there is no more goin out with your friends because you have to worry about who is going to watch your baby ... a baby is alot of responsibility ... u have to think about school? daycare? food? clothes? money? workin? AND DIAPERS ...
2006-06-30 17:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, do you have someone to support you or are you ready to give up all your freedom? Do you have a good job to pay for everything home, food , and everything that goes with it enjoy your young life. wait have fun and I know that you will make a good mom
2006-06-30 16:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are. it's really a personal choice. and really think of the babys needs your needs. are you financially able to support a child? think that over for awhile and if you think you can good luck.. plzez update me. and thnx for ur advice on ..sex at 14. it reallly helped
2006-06-30 17:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are fourteen and trying or wanting to get pregnent than yes.....its not as easy as u youngens think of it to be......the crying,feedings,waking up in the middle of the night,changing diapers,pulling in taking out of car seat,the holding,the playing etc......if u are young and trying to get pregnent i dont suggest it....unless u think u can do it n have the money to afford all of the things u n ur baby needs...........now if u r 23 and married thats a diffrent story.cuz then u have ur husband wut not to help u out n take turns wit the child...............
2006-06-30 17:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by holla_backgurl4u420 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋