Some people say - ' the looks do not count but the good character das.
Why is so many people thinking - if you are beautifull you are not good. But - why not to be beautifull and good ?
2006-06-30 09:41:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Of course they count! The point is that they shouldn't matter.
But let's face it - they do!
2006-06-30 09:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question!
We are constantly pushed messages every single day in the media that perfect beauty (as dictated by the few) equals success, so if you look as the perfume, body lotions, make advertisements all the models are actresses, model who are successful and often rich.
People are attracted to and fantasise about these icons so others want to be more attractive and then go all lengths the could muster to achieve what is regarded as perfect beauty.
If you watch the extreme makeover programmes where people get multiple cosmetic surgery operations in one go - they'll tell you that after the pain, bruising and major discomfort the key thing they realise is that beauty is something that comes from high levels of self-confidence and self-esteem.
Go out on a Friday or Saturday night and take a look at how attracts the most attention. You'll find while it may be attractive people initially, the longest attention remains on those who are confident and enjoying themselves not matter how unattractive they may be.
And also that's why ugly guys get good looking girls!
2006-07-01 05:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by geekiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because whether a thing matters or not is just an opinion, not a fact. And different people have different opinions. The same as they have different looks.
Just because people say a thing does not make it true.
2006-06-30 16:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People assume beautiful people get attention and love it. Therefore, most people think they're shallow and empty. People that say things like that are suffering from low self esteem and jealousy.
2006-06-30 16:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say looks aren't important as i am butt ugly but have been told i am a really great person, so i am clinging to the whole its on the inside what counts....
but in all honesty...in a pub in the street or wherever its not your personality that gets you noticed is it?
2006-07-03 15:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The power of beauty magazines, what women are having done and guys is weird, i dont understand why they would have it doneit oes not make you a better person.
2006-06-30 16:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Owen Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's like a sub consious message. you think people will judge you if you don't dress how they expect you to. but notice people don't generally remember what you look like but more whether you have a good character or not. it's all pyschology.
2006-07-01 08:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some things make us feel good about our self.
sometimes it just takes having your hair done - or putting on something sexy - is enough to make you feel good and hence look good.
I know many people who are beautiful and good - so I don't think this is right!!!
2006-06-30 19:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lulu Ferrari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOW SELF ESTIME!!! OR THEY CARE WAY TOO MUCH ABOUT WHAT OTHER THINK. ONCE U FIND THE PERSON THAT U LOVE AND REALLY FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH AND ALSO FEEL LOVED BY: U CAN LOOK LIKEK **** AND STILL FEEL PRETTY!
2006-07-07 15:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by dark_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks will get you further in life than personality.
Sad but true.
2006-06-30 17:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋