Hey, my boyfriend likes to play around alot.
He likes to make just and tease me.
BUT.
He teases me like ALL the frikin time.
It makes me sad. But I tell him that I don't like it and he says ''why cant you take a joke?''
and, ''I like it when you get mad. It's hot''
I dont really like that!
So how do I tell him and make him listen. And know that it kind of makes me sad. Why does he like teasing me so much?
--I knew dating a emo guy was a mystake--
lol jk lol
^ don't mind that.
Yeah but seriously...
2006-06-30 09:33:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound like a valley girl. No wonder he teases you. Find a prep or jock.
2006-06-30 09:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to take him not tease you so much is when he is being nice to you and not teasing you compliment him tell him that was so sweet or thank you you so much for calling me and don't let him know you get mad when he tease you and do it back to him. And if that doesn't work tell him right out them if that doesn't work move on to another guy then he will get jealous of it and tell him why you broke up with him and if tries to make it better then that's good.
P.S. Contact me if you have any other questions cute_n_proud2006@yahoo.com
2006-06-30 09:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to just let him know that you don't like that stuff. Be firm with him you can't say that you don't like something and then keep taking it from him. Sometimes you have to get aggressive with guys. I've been in the same situation with a guy. He didn't get the point until I was aggressive with my words. Do what he is doing to you. Play his game and see how he likes it. Make fun of him back or hit a sensitive area about him. Then when he says he doesn't like it then tell him "it doesn't feel so good now does it?" Then tell him how you feel.
2006-06-30 09:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. How old are you?
2. How long have you been with him?
3. People tease because they are insecure of themselves.
4. If 1 is young and 2 is not long, find you a new guy.
2006-06-30 09:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mama C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i had that problem with my husband, i just told him that i dont mind jokes when they happen only every once in a while but that when he does it all the time i become sensative and it makes me upset to where i want to cry cause i didnt understand if he sees that i am angry or hurt by it then why doesnt he stop. so this was an agrument with us that night and he told me he would take it as a lesson to be more aware of my feeling and that he would stop playing around so much.so you just realy need to sit him down and make him look at you in the eyes while you talk to make sure that it is getting threw to him. and if he cant realy understand and does not want to fix things then he is not what you should be with. good luck.
2006-06-30 09:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to break up, Don't say why.
Let him start begging you to tell him why you broke up with him, let him get all depressed about being dumped, and let him start calling alot. once a day or two have gone by, agree to let him discuss it with you, and once he bares his soul to you, wisper in his ear. (What? Can't take a joke?) and tap him on his forehead.
If he doesn't get the picture after that, you don't need to be with him. If he can't see thigs from your poing of view now, he won't later, this might open his eyes to the way he's making you feel. Or at least point him in the general dirrection.
2006-06-30 09:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I am dating your boyfriends brother. Mine acts the same way. No matter what I say or do he doesn't stop. If I act mad he likes it. If I ignore him he bugs me until I pay attention. I've learned to deal with it over the years but if you don't think you can, you might have to move on. It just seems to get old when they are constantly teasing you. But I love him enough to put up with his crap.
2006-06-30 09:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by impossible 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you find something to tease him about? the only thing i could tell you is to let him know how you feel but you already did, so try it one more time and if he does not listen then he does not respect you and you need to let him go his own way.
hope he listens good luck.!
2006-06-30 09:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it you should seriously tell him so.
And say that if he doesn't stop you are willing to look for another boy who treat you the way you want to be treated.
2006-06-30 09:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by mico C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyguy Find it Cute When A girl is Angry They say we have"the Cutest Face" when were mad....... So get use to it
2006-06-30 09:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋