Do black men believe in marriage or do they want to just play around?
2006-06-30 09:27:12 · 19 answers · asked by Madam SupaStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I ask this not to probe racial issues, but to answer a heart felt question. Most responses have stated that you attract a certain type of person and that reflects who are. I understand that to be true, but what do black men have to say about this question. This question arose because many of my homegirls are finding out that their men don't want the commitment of marriage and I was simply asking why.
2006-06-30 09:46:08 · update #1
Not to be rude, but this is a very stupid question! Yes, they believe in marriage, just like other races!
2006-06-30 09:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honey, you can apply that question to any man, of any color. Women are starting to exhibit the same behavior. All are tired of the traditional commitments that comes with relationships, especially when they are ill equiped to handle them. Age doesn't matter either, but as people age, and the reality of life hits them that you work, pay taxes, and bury yourself in debt is all that there is to life. A person begins to want another person to share life with them so it is not so hard to endure. Looks can be a plus, but respect and values are the most important thing in a relationship. Sadly, most people don't know how to apply these things to the ones they love, yet that is what they desperately want from those who love them.
2006-06-30 16:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um i dont like to necessarly single them out cause lots of men of all color are like that. but you do hear about blacks doing it more then the other races, but i think that is just cause they are more into it being ok then other races. but n e ways most men these days are settling down at an older age now so they have this thing with needing to stay young longer, so thats all i can tell ya.
2006-06-30 16:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they know what is important to women: Trust, Honesty, Respect, Caring, Sharing, Apprecation, A Sense of Humor, Unconditional Love , Genuine Friendship, Open Communication.
Actually, some white men and black men know this. We do want you to know this and want you to be aware of this which might seem like we are playing games and all, but we are honestly not doing that.
2006-06-30 16:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has nothing to do with color. A man of any color could be either. It also, depends on what type of man you like or attract. I know women that only attract losers.
2006-06-30 16:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is good and bad in everyone so maybe you need to check yourself and really look at the type of men you go out with and what you do with them when you do.
2006-06-30 16:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by jeezmeneti66 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Black, white or whatever they all the same the want what they can get free.If a woman let them so don't just point a finger at one color cause all men are alike.
2006-06-30 16:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
some want to get married and some play around do drugs complain about how they arent teated right. what kinda black lady are you? usually the ones that are alike attract thoes who
agree with them.
2006-06-30 16:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by mdbuchanan2000 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really doesn't make a difference weither they are black or white or purple....it depends on what they are inside that constitutes if they want a casual or serious relationship.
2006-06-30 17:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
some do belive in marriage and some want to play around.
2006-06-30 16:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by tor-tor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋