how many of u consider oral sex as sex??

Question

do you still get emotionally attatched if u do that wit someone?
cuz i did and...i really dont know what to think my thoughts jus fly all over the place i cant tell if im emotionally attatched or if i could care less,..or if i should tell someone or...WHAT! u can probly tell how confused i am and cuz i
jus dont kno wat to think

Answer 1

I do. If some woman was slobbin on my husbands nob, I would be PISSED. There is a certain level of intimacy to such actions whether it is recognized or not.

Answer 2

well this problem is solved easily by not having any kind of sex until after you know how you feel about someone. and yes oral sex is sex and if you ask me its more intimate than intercourse.

so you got yourself into a confusing situation, start over. back up, if you think you might want to be with this person try it, go on a date, talk on the phone, spend some time together WITHOUT sex then see how you feel. if its going well and you are now sure you like this person then think about sex again.

if not then learn the lesson of how a couple of minutes of fun can mess with you for a long time, and you got the best of the possiblities there its just messing with your head. you could have ended up with an incurable std, then it messes with everything you do the rest of your life and yes just from oral sex.

Answer 3

You sound way too young to be having oral sex or sex of any kind. That is why your so confused. Your getting yourself into things your too young to fully understand. For me oral sex is more intimate than sex. Dont let just any guy put himself in your mouth or body. And yes, you can still get emotionally attached. Sex is sex after all.

Answer 4

Personally I don't think it as "sex". I think someone has to be in someone for it to be sex (maybe that's contradicting - if you are giving a guy oral) Anyway - I'm at the point in my life where I don't think anything is a big deal anymore. If you are young -- (like under 17) then yeah - it is sex.

Answer 5

I absolutely consider it sex. It is a deeply intimate act (or at least it should be) and I think if you're this confused, it's not likely that you're emotionally attached. For me, having sex (in any form) should be BECAUSE you're attached to someone, not something you do to try to GET attached to someone.

Answer 6

Oral sex is sex. It is not intercourse. you are being intimate with someone and you may get emotionally attached. Sex is not a game.Guys tend to get less emotional than girls even with intercourse. you are feeling confused but at least you are feeling something because you are human. OK?

Answer 7

Yes,

If it involves that certain area man or woman it is sex. Otherwise
we could give oral in public. Before you give someone something so Intimate make sure you know what kind of person they are.

Answer 8

I belive that if get to such level of intimacy with someone you gotta be sure of what you do.remember STD´S. But if you are not attached to anyone and u enjoyed. then there is no place for regreting. just live the moment

Answer 9

TONGUE KISSING IS SEX, IT'S THE INTIMACY NOT THE ACT. IF YOU ARE SO CONFUSED ABOUT SEX AND EMOTIONS, YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX. JUST ENJOY THE THRILL OF ATTRACTION, FLIRTING, BEING FRIENDS, WAIT UNTIL YOU HAVE NO DOUBT YOU WANT TO MAKE LOVE WITH A PERSON. THE FEELING WILL BE SO REAL AND FINE, SO DELICIOUS. SO SURE.

Answer 10

Oral Sex, when applied in the right technique, such as my invention, PALATIZATION, is so far more advanced than sexual intercourse! But that's okay. NOT all women qualify to be PALATIZED either.