i a man i have been hurt by man after man after amn and and when the right 1 come along i am afraid that i will run him ff cause of the way the next guy treated me. how do i get over dat?
2006-06-30 08:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by princesspooh1987 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm still waiting to meet mine too. I have now come to the conclusion that when the right one comes along he wont do the things that bring out my hurt and pain. He wont provoke those feelings the other guys did. He will be the guy that understands my past and my pain and he will not do anything to pour salt in my wounds.
2006-06-30 08:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you'll know. There is a instinct that comes with Love. What you've been getting is superficial satisfaction. That is where the hurt comes from. You expect more but get less. Don't try so hard to please everyone, please yourself, then you'll find that being treated is about how you treat. The best way to hold a man is HOLD HIM ... Cheer Up! Not every man is out to hurt.
2006-06-30 15:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into a relationship until you are fully healed from your last. being fully healed means that you have gained back your self-respect and confidence. learn to love yourself first. if you have learned to really love yourself, you will not allow anyone to mistreat you and make you feel less of a person.
you will know that the right man has come along if he makes you feel good about yourself and brings out the best in you. good luck !!
2006-06-30 15:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by babytalk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly the right man he'll understand you've been hurt and he'll be there anyway no matter how hard you try to run him off.I'm not gay but love is love and it works the same for anyone.
2006-06-30 15:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by blinkblinkme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the right man comes you'll know. i found my right guy this year in Feb. when you find that right one you feel safe and you feel like you can be yourself without scaring him off or making him think that you're weird. But you really have to just trust your heart in the decisions it makes.
2006-06-30 16:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... I have an ex wife that had a saying..... There's Mr. Right....and there's Mr. Right Now !
This doesn't answer your question... I just thought it "fit". lol !
2006-06-30 15:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Beaumeader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋