i have this friend ...we used to be really close...i used to tell her everything...like things i wouldnt tell my mom....U know those things u tell a friend an make them promise not to tell anyone..well she tells her mom everything.they're like best friends.... Cuz this one time i had got dumped by this boi and it was a really bad break up..an i cried...i told my friend how i felt...then she told her mom..an i was at her house watchin a movie with her..an her mom comes in an says y did u cry over this boy...dont do that..blah blah blah..she blew the whole thing out of proportion..i was really mad at my friend cuz she told....her mom is always in my business..an im like so irratated now it's not even funny...What do i do?
2006-06-30 08:10:12 · 10 answers · asked by babydoll796444 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if she is really getting on your nevers then do not tell your friend any of the secrets. that way she will not be able to tell her mom if she dose not know! that happened to me once and i just stoped telling my friend and when she asked why i was not telling her any of my secrets i told her it was because she always would tell her mom, then she said she would try not to tell, and she said even if she does tell she would make her mom promise not to say anything/ bring it up.
2006-06-30 08:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by hey_yea_sup 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If this girl is telling your business to anybody then she is obviously not your real friend. She's fake as hell for that and her mom needs to be a mom and stop trying to be friends with her daughter.
2006-06-30 09:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lin_Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell this friend anything you don't want her MOM to know about. Obviously she - the friend - doesn't know what a SECRET is and how too keep it SECRET.
You could let her know you are disappointed in her or just leave things be.
2006-06-30 08:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the best thing that can happen when you make your mom your best friend. She can guide you and protect you from the big bad wolves out there. Try to make your mom your best friend and you will be glad you did.
2006-06-30 08:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust ur friends with thins like that cause u know she is gonna tell her mom some ppl are like that and have a astrong bond with there paretnts and thats a good thing cause than the parent cause trust the kid a little more
2006-06-30 08:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that your friend has that relationship with her mom. You knw this, so from now on, if you don't want advice from this woman, or for her to know what's going on with you, don't tell her daughter.
2006-06-30 08:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to have a relationship like her and her Mom, you be surprised how your Mom would understand your heart ache.
2006-06-30 08:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your friend, but since she talks to her mom so much maybe it's not a good idea to stay friends.
2006-06-30 08:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend thought you needed a mother figure to talk to and since you don't tell your mom she thought you can trust her mom. i don't think you should be mad at her
2006-06-30 08:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Susie Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be mad at your friend. it's good that she has that relationship with her mother. just tell her that you'd prefer that she didn't tell your business to anyone.
2006-06-30 08:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋