When I met my boyfriend I didnt know that he liked porn and I don't like it until I found out while I was pregnant and we started living together what bothered me the most is that he would go masturbate and watch a movie a night after having sex that made me feel like crap but then he told me it was normal but I think he's got a problemwe got into a big argument and he stopped watching them but it is still bothering me big time because he used to do it everyday I have though about me needing help but Im confused because he used to hide from me all thetime and when I tried watching one with him he promised me that we were only gonna watch it together but then next day I left for work he watched it please help.
2006-06-30 08:04:51 · 10 answers · asked by chilanga 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
It is totally normal; normal for a boyfriend that no longer finds his girl attractive. Are you rich? Or maybe he just doesn't think he can do any better.
2006-06-30 08:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by retardedmonkeey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys just like that stuff a whole bunch. They are simple minded like that. He probably hides it from you because he knows you object to his watching it. The whole lying to you about it thing should stop though. Also, did you tell him it makes you feel like crap? Maybe if you guys sit down and really talk about it(no arguing) you can respect each others views and figure out a solution. Don't think it happens to only you though, my best friend has the same problem with he boyfriend he said he stopped and she keeps finding more things out. I am sorry this is making you feel so terrible things will shape up.
2006-06-30 08:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Shadoobie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it normal? I guess in today's men society it is.
Is it right, NO NO NO.
Pornography is just like alcohol and any other drug that changes the chemistry of the brain. If the substance/image/action stimulates the brain to a level of sexual arousal then you run the risk of becoming addictive to "IT".
If he does not understand how much his behavior bothers you then he might not be the right person for you. A partner will compromise....specially when it comes down to addictive behavior.
Ask my brother, he just finish a 10 month sentence due to buying pornographic images over the internet that included young teenagers...I guess the brain gets bored and tired of the "TRADITIONAL" images and seeks for something more exciting and forbidden
2006-06-30 08:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by hmc121667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to watch it but it is wrong to hide it. I have had a few boyfriends who downloaded porn and I am the type of girl who enjoys watching it so I couldnt understand why they were lying to me about it and hiding it. I had an ex who I fought with all the time about hiding porn and I have even caught my husband watching it and attempting to lie to me about it! I told my husband if I caught him lying about it again that would be the end of us and he hasn't done it since.
Men are just stupid.
2006-06-30 09:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not normal infact it is wrong of him to hide from you..
If you know and watch it ith him then Idon't see a problem..
Could be fun
2006-06-30 08:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do what girls do. Don't take it personal when a guy wants to pleasure himself he's most likely just messing around it's nothing personal againist you. Would you he rather be with someone else?
2006-06-30 08:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by roger g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys like porn and they tend to hide it because its considered "taboo".Just because he watches it doesn't mean hes sick or twisted..maybe you could watch it with him sometime.
2006-06-30 08:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Heather D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal.
His activity with himself didn't make you feel like crap. Your attitude toward it did.
Why are you upsetting yourself about this? It's not about you.
2006-06-30 10:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be abnormal , but it is disrespectful to you.
And yes......its like saying that you're not enough for him.
2006-06-30 09:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pornography can be addictive, and most boys/men are addicts.
2006-06-30 10:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by Dondare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋