My mom and boyfriend don't get along and i love them both so much. He wants it to be me and him i am okay with it but after the baby is born he don't want my mom there what should i do?
2006-06-30 08:01:14 · 10 answers · asked by proud mama 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if he loves you so much then he should be willing to commit to you by respecting you enough to have you as his wife....that maybe why your mother dislikes him......as far as who goes in with you that is your decision and both your mother and your baby's daddy should abide by and not get mad about what you decide. good luck
2006-06-30 08:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, you are the mother and the person who has charge in this situation. I think if either can't get along then you need to have a talk and let them know that you are not going to be having these childish games. Tell them how you feel and that you want both them to get along for the baby sake. This is something I went threw and I thought my mom and B/f now my husband was going to be at each others neck when I delivered, but actually they got along well they both helped and was talking and everything so no need to worry. Just have that talk
2006-06-30 08:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by KANDIGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like my life. When i had my baby my bf wouldnt let any one besides him and doctors in the room when she was born. Everyone was in the room till i started pushing. Then he made everyone including my mom leave and then they were called back in after i was sewn up from the episotomy.
We are not together now. And i resent the fact that i couldnt have my mom there with me.
Make the decision that YOU want.
2006-06-30 08:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by camoprincess32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one having the baby and explain to both of them who you want in there and tell them to quit being selfish and deal with it.
2006-06-30 08:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by lovethebeanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what you feel is right. Who do you want in there? Make them make a compromise for you your having the baby.
2006-06-30 08:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that depends on who you feel comfortable being with you when you deliver.
My husband was with me of coures and I had my mother and my mother-in-law. As soon as I delivered, my husband's aunt and my aunt both came in to see us - before we were cleaned up or anything ---
2006-06-30 10:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your mom, u need to make the decision. are u too a couple and r raising the baby together? she is ur mom forever is he?
2006-06-30 08:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by kathleen c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno..whoever you feel should be in there I guess. Here's my thing though--why go natural? You wouldn't have a natural root canal would you? Just a thought...
2006-06-30 08:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds familiar. I told both of them to get over it or no one will be there.
2006-06-30 08:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by raevan2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your mom should stay cause shes the one that brought u into this world and so its a new addition if u have any ?s email me Gomezzz_grl@yahoo.com
2006-06-30 08:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋