Ok my BF has been telling me that i barely pay any attetnion to him or whatever. so to make a story short, i found the phone bill and found out he's been talkign to some girl that he started chatting w/ on the internet. they talked for a long time. HE confessed that he told her he was single. i felt totally destroyed. he said that i didn't give him enough attention and he had to find it somehwere else. (they haven't met yet)... i admit that i am not an affectionate person. but i just feel so angry right now. i am usually up here giving advice, but now that is w/ me, is hard to see what's up.
2006-06-30 07:57:50 · 14 answers · asked by A_Latina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Another example of how to ruin a relationship. You're both at fault for it. You're to blame for not being able to give him the attention he wanted. And he's at blame for using that as an excuse to talk to other people. Is it cheating? No. Is it a sign that you two have major issues? Yes. Just cut your losses.
2006-06-30 08:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think yes. This could be considered cheating because he didn't give you a second chance or enough time to fix the problem. He just went ahead and started to talk to some other girl and worst of all telling her he is a single. He could have at least told you that he wanna move on... Do you really love him? I think since he starting moving on some another girl you should move on too. Good Luck!
2006-06-30 15:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my Ex also my babys daddy did the same **** about 6 years ago when I found out I broke up with him. We didnt talk for about 2 years and now we are friends I just found out from a E-mail foward he sent that he is still talking to her and he admitted that he really did meet her at the time he just didnt want to risk it My advice leave his *** or do so serious investogating Good Luck Girl!!!!
2006-06-30 15:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now ANYTIME some needs to ask themselves that question...........they already know the answer.
If you have to ask.........yes!!
I mean we all know it , but sometimes we can't come to grip with in and look to others as a form of validation.
Sweety it is time to be strong and move on. It is hard to do.but the best thing for you. Unless you in some form of hope are looking for someone to tell you no and it is ok.......well hun it isn't. He is cheating.....the fact he told sombody else he is single..........he is on the prowl and looking for an upgrade. So you be in control........dump his a.s.s. to the curb. Before he does you. Good luck! Stay strong! Keep your chin up hun.........cuz you are worth BETTER!
2006-06-30 15:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wish you knew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is a sign that you are not compatible with him. He obviously does not understand you and is also showing that he is disloyal and dishonest. You should cut your losses now and find someone who truly understands you instead of running to another woman the minute things get hard. Just think about this...if you get married to this man and you get pregnant and you go into preterm labor and are put on bed rest....that means you can not have sex...so is he going to go find another woman to have sex with because you can not???? Ditch him now girl while you can!!
2006-06-30 15:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by mandyunknown1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its cheating! He is cheating because he has feelings for someone else. And even if they haven't met yet, they might. And even if its not cheating, he lied to you and he lied about himself being single, which means he doesn't care about you or y'alls relationship.
Who cares if you're not an affectionate person; you're just not ready yet.
You really need to find you someone you is willing to wait, love you, care for you, and not cheat on you.
PLEASEEEEEE, DUMP THAT BUSTER!!!LOL!!!
2006-06-30 15:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An emotional affair is alot worse than a physical affair
2006-06-30 15:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by montana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a lot of trust, or interest in either direction. Time to move on?
2006-06-30 15:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by U. N. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me if the thought crosses ur mind u did it. He thought of doing it and almost did so pretty much he did. n other words, yes i would think of this as cheating!!
2006-06-30 15:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time the girl is online tell her whats going on but pretend 2 b your bf or so say it ex. bf!!!!!
2006-06-30 15:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Desiree ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋