I am gonna have my first time tonite i am really scared!
2006-06-30 07:51:22 · 15 answers · asked by pizza_girly223 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. For most girls, it's not enjoyable the first time. If you are scared, you might not be ready. Don't rush into your first time. If a guy is putting pressure on you, don't do it to please him. ??
Good luck....:)
2006-06-30 07:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I am thinking what you are thinking then you probably are scared cus you think it will hurt. I am not going to lie it hurts alittle, but not a whole lot you can handle it. Ask him to go down on you first so you can be wet, other wise it will hurt more.
Or you might be scared to take off your clothes? Dont worry about what you look like if the guy loves you it doesnt matter what your body looks like ,he will tell you you look like a godess
even if you dont feel like one.
Almost forgot! If you do have sex tonight, make sure you use PROTECTION. Please please please, use protection. you dont want to get pregnant or get an STD. After he gets his condom on just relax and take a deep breath. And if all goes well the next times you do it, it only gets better.
Or you might be scared because you are not sure if you love each other. The only answer to this is to NOT DO IT. Baby you have to feel in your heart that you are sure its love otherwise you will be hurt.
2006-06-30 15:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by beantheredonethat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a total disaster. But it gets better don't worry. If you are planning on doing it tonight, make sure you are ready and comfortable with him. Make sure you really want to, if you back out, then it's the guys loss, not yours. Take precautions and most importantly relax. I was shaking the first time, but it really isn't such a big deal, for me anyway. Good luck.
2006-06-30 14:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by shica2k1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was alright, it kinda sukt cuz neither of us knew what we were doing, but last night was great, did it with a tampon in there, made it alot better, mostly for her, i got friction burn on my dick, watch porno and mastrbate and get an idea b4 u do it, depending on how old u are if u should be ashamed of it, if ur a teen, then good luck, if ur an adult, what took u so long?! sex is great once u get used to it. some are blessed to be great the first time. hope he finds the right hole alright
2006-06-30 14:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nameless K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your scared then you shouldnt do it. You need to be totally comfortable with the person that you are with.
The first time will be awkward becuase your not gonna know what to do to pleasure your partner. Dont have high expectations. Take it slow.
2006-06-30 15:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by creskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The guy lasted about a whole minute and it was really small. After it was over I was thinking, "that's it?? that sucked!" Most importantly if you are really scared and are having second thoughts, don't do it. Wait a bit.
2006-06-30 15:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Trixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r scared that means u r not ready. The right time will be when u r not scared or nervous
2006-06-30 14:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by queen88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur scared u shouldnt do it because ur gonna regret it believe me i didnt wait and i regret it everyday. And no i didnt like it cause it hurt really bad.
2006-06-30 14:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's didi? don't have sex if your scared,the time is not right.
2006-06-30 14:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you outta consider waiting. Nothing wrong with waiting.
2006-06-30 14:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by U. N. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋