My husband's best friend's wife has a crush on my husband. He does not see it but I do and so does anyone else who are around them together. Well we stayed away from them for almost a year and he feels resentment toward me because he can't hang around his friend like he used to. In fact he told me once that a few years ago he tried to replace me with them but couldn't. Anyhow I am trying to be friends with her but I still do not like her around my husband. Well I came home with her with me and he was home unexpectily (I did not tell him I was coming home) and he had just finished with yard work so he was hot and did not put on a shirt. I told him that she was with me and I thought that he should put on a shirt. But he fought me on it and finally after geting really upset he put on a shirt. He said that it was his house and he was hot so he should not have had to do it. But he knows how I feel about her. Who was wrong here because he says he was not and I say I was not. HELP!
2006-06-30 07:43:31 · 9 answers · asked by mandyunknown1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
persecuting your husband is not a solution,if he is not interested by her why make him always think of her then,but never let them alone and try to show your husbands friend who is the mistress,be intelligent and wise.
Good luck
2006-06-30 07:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by chinwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let this woman put a strain in your marriage. that is what she wants. Let her want him all she wants. TRust your man to do the right thing. DO NOT keep saying he can't do this or that or make it seem like he is being restricted. that will make him mad at you and see this woman as forbidden fruit and possible start thinking about her not because of feelings for her but because she is forbidden. let it go and trust your man. he will appreciate it and who knows you may get some jewelry out of it!
2006-06-30 15:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you heard the saying: hold your friends close but hold your enemies closer? You need to make sure this woman is on your side - if you are a b**** to her, she will take great pleasure in trying to take your husband from you.
Also it's not your husbands fault she is attracted to him - if you are horrible to him too, you might drive him into her arms.
Chill out and take it as a compliment if people fancy your husband - means you have good taste :)
2006-06-30 14:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by charleymac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him why you are acting like this so maybe he can understand more. Plus tell her that you know she has a crush on your husband and take back off nicely
2006-06-30 14:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Cowgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually you both are right on your place , he is in his home and feel hot ,that's why he didn't wear shirt and you know about that women's intention towards your husband so you want him to wear shirt .it's ok with both of you .
2006-06-30 14:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by handsum025 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, you forgot the main reason of marriage. trust. your husband is a good man and i don't think he'll do anything that would hurt you. besides, it's cool to see others are jealous of what you both have. right?
2006-06-30 14:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is the one that is liking all this attention from this girls or else he wouldn't fight you about dumb stuff i guess in some ways the guy is his friend and he would like to hang with him so let him but you always need to keep your eye on that girl and if she keeps flirting with him bring it up to her dont be afraid to tell her you feelings and how she is making you feel!!
2006-06-30 14:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by barbie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both you yet hes right about his house but yet he sould have enough desenty to put on a shirt gust for you they could be havening an afare you know
2006-06-30 14:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by tonydiekman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take her aside and let her know he's happy in the marriage and you resent what she's doing.
2006-07-01 18:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by rosie w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋