we were very gud frnds, 1 day his brother talk to me n force to be his frnd n after some day i caught him actully he was jesting n was making fun of me.at that he didnt clear that matter.after that i heard from my bestfrnd that he talked behind me a lot n make fun of me.
now after 4 months he came back n said i have not cheated u n have said nothing against me n had not make fun also.n try to convince me lot
should i talk to him as he come to clear hs misunderstanding after a long time.
plz help
2006-06-30 07:33:32 · 9 answers · asked by njoylife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well it seems as though u shouldnt because i dont think a best friend would lie to u about something like this. I also dont see why he came back after 4 months. it seems like a pretty long time. also, u saw him do it with ur own eyes, i mean how can u trust what he says when u saw it urself? i wouldnt talk to him if i were you.
2006-06-30 07:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friend or bad friend everyone deserves a chance to speak and be spoken to. Maybe it was jalousy among your other best friends and they wanted to ruin your friendship you never know. Give him a chance to speak see what he has to say. Talking to him doesnt mean that your best friends again. Their is also a trial period where friendships rebuilt. If he is a true friend you will see that your friendship will become much stronger but if it was true what he did than it will start all over again and he will be further away from you. Dont jump back at him observe what happens say in a course of a month than you can make a decision whether its worth it or not. Good Luck !!!!
2006-06-30 14:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, if you clearly heard him talking down on you, then you know that he was, if you are only listening to other people say he was talking down on you then maybe you should get the group together and talk it out. If you know 100% he was doing this and he is not telling you the truth about it now, walk away, you could still be civil to him, I just would not chum up with this person again.
2006-06-30 14:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by dawn m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is a true friend to you then yes you should talk to them and see what they have to say and maybe you can forgive and forget
2006-06-30 14:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be friends with him but i wouldnt give him too much info on secrets until i know i have his trust back
2006-06-30 14:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by ilyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are always in need of friends in this short life,if you like your friend and find he is sincere why not pardon him any one has got the right to have a second .
2006-06-30 14:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by chinwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. this guys an asshole who cant be trusted.
2006-06-30 14:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by california gurlie poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was someone who misunderstood you?!?!
2006-06-30 14:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt trust him.
2006-06-30 14:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋