SHE WAS ENGAGED TO A CUBAN, THEY ARE BOTH IN THE MILITARY, BUT ANYWAYS, SHE HAD SEX WITH A GUY, CONTINUOUSLY, AND SHE FOUND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT, BUT SHE SWORE UP AND DOWN THAT IT WAS HER FIANCEE'S BUT THE LAST TIME SHE SAW HIM WAS NOV. '04! SHE DIDN'T HAVE THE BABY UNTIL DEC. '05! NOW SHE HATES THE BABY'S FATHER, AND WISHES HE DIES AND ROT IN HELL BECAUSE SHE MADE A CHOICE TO CHEAT ON HER FIANCEE' WITH NUMEROUS GUYS! SHE SAYS THAT SHE FEEDS OFF OTHER PEOPLE'S SEXUAL ENERGY! NOW SHE DOESN'T HAVE A FIANCEE', HE LEFT HER! WHAT IS THAT? HOW COULD SHE THINK THAT EVERYTHINGS GONNA BE OK IF SHE DOESN'T LET THE BABY'S FATHER SEE HIS DAUGHTER? ANSWER THAT FOR ME, PLEASE?
2006-06-30 07:19:22 · 24 answers · asked by VEEZY 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ya gotta pay the fiddler if you're gonna dance.
2006-06-30 07:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few issues here.
1- how does she think the fiancee is the father of the baby is she last slept with the guy a year before? yeah well he must be a nut and cant count.
2- The real father of the baby she hates? He should be so lucky.
3- She made her bed and had kids. Don't she know what condoms are? She has now a life time to hate, but she has a child and for the sake of that child she has to let him see the child as he (the real father if he really is the real one)has rights as a father to see that child. If I was him I would set up a trust fund for the child and send it to the child when they turn 21 as he would be better off away from the ex. That way in years to come he can always say to the child that he cared enough for her and explain what happened way back when.
4- She sounds like a sex fiend and she will never be content to have one partner or one relationship.
5- If you are any friend you will always make sure the child comes first as it sounds she will need some-one later in life.
She will never be rid of the baby's father whether or not he dies as she will always have the child to remind her,just make sure she treats the child well and not abuse her as some do.
Good luck to you all.
2006-07-13 18:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by AUSSIE AUSSIE AUSSIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main concern here is that little baby. The guy should get an attorney and go though the law to be able to be a part of the baby's life. In time things will get easier. A lot of anger, selfishness is ruling this situation. Get a paturnity test go and go from there. The law, it's gonna take a while, but they will make it work. Limit communication with the girl and speak through the attorney's. Its gonna be ugly but this baby needs are the most important. Hopefully mother/fathers intentions are of the baby's best interest. If not may God have mercy on ya'lls soul.
2006-06-30 07:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by LO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I guess she had some fun but in life she lost everthing that was good. I don't even know how could you believe someone to be pregnant for 1yr. About the baby she should let her see her father unless he is this scum bag who won't wan't to take responsibility. Other than that let her have a father and treat each other with respect for the baby.
2006-07-11 05:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Whoa!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should have thought about what could have happened before she cheated on her man. She thought that she was going to have her cake and eat it too and I think whatever happens to her is what she deserves but it is not fair that she does not let the father see the child. I think all that her actions are going to do is show her daughter how to hate.
2006-06-30 07:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA HA HA how screwed up is to hate the babies father but you had a lot of sex with him !!!
I really hate you but do me any way????
She needs to prove paternity and then take it from there.
Honesty is needed here and let the other guy be on his way to find a respectable person.
2006-06-30 08:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insecure and immature.She is not thinking of the baby,she is only thinking of herself.The baby needs a father,even if it is not a live-in father.He should take her to court and get visiting rights.They could do a test called dna to see which one is for sure the father.
2006-07-13 05:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by countrykarebare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing the baby's father just makes her life more complicated. She didn't want him as a permanent fixture, just as a quick fling. It was "just" sex. Her life will be easier with her child if she doesn't have to see him. He can sue for shared custody, though, or for visitation. She can't keep him away.
2006-07-13 02:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by kayleigh w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer knows the answer.
2006-07-13 12:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Thom Thumb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry there were like 8 questions in that.. i think this girl just ****** up and thats her conciquence.. not to be an asshole or anything but if your gonna **** some mexican dude atleast tell your fiancee
2006-07-07 08:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well.
so the girl is not handlng the situation well. and maybe what she really wants is to feel love.
2006-07-09 00:05:30 · answer #11 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋