my parents wont let me have a boyfriend.....they think im to young but i dont and i feel like killing myself because they never let me b alone and get freedom!
2006-06-30 07:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by VaMpIrA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its not just the boyfreind deal...its everything, i cant do anythign that other girls can do...like sleepover, go to the mall, wear skirts, wear cute clothes, talk to boys and they make my life miserable by not telling me stuff so im always slow but i catch up at my own pace..i wanna die and i almost did and i still have a gagging cloth and knife for me. :(
2006-06-30 11:32:40 · update #1
listen to ur parents, u need boot camp! U love bad boys, they CAUSE problems and get u in BIG trouble. How old r u? Ur a real lame *** if u think of killing urself, u shouldn't even joke about it. Ur a kid, u don't get freedom! Not till ur 16-18 sweetie, that's life. I know, I hated it too. Tough luck. U can't be alone sweetie! Grow up! It's have some freedom, not get* Teen boys are bad! Your too young. This is for your own good.
2006-06-30 07:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
i always had guy friends in highschool and my mom couldn't do anything about it.
parents will never leave you alone and give you freedom. the only way to get freedom is to take it.besides i think that you probably have bigger battles with your parents than boys. how old are you anyway. if you are anything less than 16. you will get your chance just wait.
i never had a meaningfull relationship until i was 19 years old. even then i still had to take the freedom i do have by force.
the best way to get freedom is move out of the monarchy
2006-06-30 07:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say 16 is the right age to start dating. Thats the age I put for my daughter. Your parents are just worried about you. You need to lighten up on them some. They want what is best for you. Our job is hard. You don't want your child to hate you but you don't want them to screw up their lives either. Trust me, if your parents didn't give a damn, you'd hate it. You'd want them to care enough to pay attention and tell you right from wrong. When you are mature, then you realize what this is all about and you appreciate things more. I don't know how old you are but it sounds to me like you have a lot of growing up to do. Instead of saying, if I don't get my own way, I'm gonna kill myself. Start looking at it from a more mature outlook. Maybe my parents just care too much about me to let me totally mess up my life. See? Now quit acting like that and be a good girl.
2006-06-30 07:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You do realize than in a few short years you will realize that you do not really know everything. I know, I know, right now you do know everything, but I can tell you from my experience, you don't know squat. In this case they are most likely correct. Also, I bet they would agree to some kind of relationship if you started acting more mature and earned some respect instead of demanding freedom.
2006-06-30 07:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel like killing yourself you need to talk to a doctor I think boys are the least of your problems.
18 you can do anything you want but 4 now do what mom says.
2006-06-30 07:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here. my parents are totally overprotective too. they dont want me to have a boyfriend until i go to college. my mom and i talked it over and now i understand why she would do this. she wants me to concentrate on school and stuff right now but if the right guy comes along she might consider it. show your parents you can be responsible and maybe you guys can negotiate a little.
2006-06-30 07:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? if not 16 then I cant blame your parents. my daughter will not have a bf until then. they love you and thats why they are over protective. But if your having thoughts of taking your life....please talk to someone about this...
2006-06-30 07:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carefully explain to them that you need male companionship and want to get it on! You won't live forever and shouldn't waste the best years of your life not having complete sexual intercourse.
2006-06-30 07:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents were the same way i just hated it they said i was to young and i alwaays said well all of my friends have boyfiends she would say they have too much freedom i just hated it i am still mad at them
2006-06-30 07:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get the freedom eventually... they are just trying to look out for you... besides, boyfriends are overrated anyway.
2006-06-30 07:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by asherdaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋