I have a crush on a guy that lives right down the street to me, almost next door. I dont know how to show him or tell him that i like him. im really shy and for me it takes lots of courage for me to talk to boys. I really need your help
2006-06-30 07:09:08 · 27 answers · asked by football_girl_4evr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing is going to happen, if you keep on thinking about it.
Next time you see him go and talk to him.
DO NOT tell him you like him, he will not know what to do with it.
Take it slow, go over and talk to him, if he likes you he will enjoy your company, and keep the conversation going just to keep you there.
Find out what he likes to do, tell him what you like to do, fine some common interests. Find out his favourite movie, CD, activities.
Find out what subjects he is really good in, and ask him for help with it, even if you are good in it to, but tell him that.
If he finds out you are ace, then tell him, you said that to meet him.
When he feels comfortable with you, on the next encounter he will come over and talk with you.
2006-06-30 07:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All these people are not understanding the concept of SHYNESS. "Just tell him" everyone says...that's way easier said than done. Me being a guy, a shy one at that, knows when a girl has the hots for me. All you, as a shy young woman, have to do is smile at him when you see him outside. You said he lives right near you right? You could also try organizing a street/block party by personally handing invitations to any/all of the neighbors around. Look up on line how to throw a block party. When you go up to his door and if he answers, just talk to him like you did every other neighbor. If he doesn't answer, that's OK cause if you have the party, it will be ahrd for him to miss it. That will be your way of intoducing yourself to him without looking like a fool. You can put your phone number and/or e-mail address on the ivitation along with your name and if he has interest, he will do 1 of 3 things...#1 - E-mail you, #2 - call you, or #3 - come to the block party. Heck, he may even do all 3. After that, it's smooth sailing.
2006-07-12 09:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by nickster51875 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think thats really what you want, for him to know you like him, then go for it. you will miss 100 % of the goals you dont attemp at, or thats what i think that poster said lol
once you know that he's REAALLLY worth it, if youre too shy to talk write him a note or something. of course, its better to do it in person but best luck to ya! =]
2006-07-13 13:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by AngeSurTerre ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try calling him on the phone and tell him that you have feelings for him and ask him if he feels the same if so ask him to try to be in a relationship with you. And if you keep your feelings to yourself and don't tell him you like him then you might get obsessed!!!!
2006-07-14 02:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! im just like you. before i would never let a guy know that i like him...but theres nothing to loose jsut remember that.because i finally got guts to let my now boyfriend now i had feelings for him weve been togetheer sinve february...this is wat i did....if you 2 share any friends tell one of them...(make sure someone you can trust) and make a plan for that friend to say little things to him suggesting that you have those feelings for him..and whenever your hanging out with him give him little signs or just be a little extra flirty.....whats the worst that could happen
2006-07-13 09:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by elle28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are very young...13 maybe 14....Give it time...maybe this guy will show interest in you maybe when you are 16!!!
If you go blurting your feelings out for this guy he'll run like a rabbit..
2006-07-13 23:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could go over one day and hang out as friends then write on a sheet of paper that you are shy and you like him and give it to him with a pen and then he could write you something back.and keep it going like that for a little wile until you get more confident
2006-06-30 08:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by ilyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do this you should take long deep breaths.rite a note(like "i like u" or something) on a piece
of paper. sign it & stick it in his desk or in his Valentine on Valentine's Day. (I did this, and he really
paid attention 2 me the rest of the day! hes like: i saw what u rote on my valentine).
2006-07-14 06:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Live2Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him you could try to tell him like you want to go to see a movie break the ice in so many words
2006-07-12 11:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to read this question of yours as well as the answers and ask for his advice as to which you should choose as the best answer.
2006-07-14 03:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by rks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋