I'm still in high school and I like this guy on my year round swim team. He's two years older than me and it would be embarassing if I asked him out and he said no. I don't know if he likes me back or not and I don't really want to be straightforward and tell him I like him. What should I do?
2006-06-30 07:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should do what you don't want to do. Tell him how you feel and ask him out. He will say yes or he will say no. Why don't you wish to be honest and straightforward? What kind of relationship would you have if it is not based upon honesty? When I was in high school I asked many girls to go out with me. Most of them said no. Did it bother me or cause me to wonder why they did not want to go out? No it did not. It is their right to say no. However, as time passed, many of these girls confided in me that they wished they had said yes. In fact, by saying no to me it enabled me to move on with my life, the result being that I met and married the kindest, sweetest, most considerate and loving woman I have ever known. In addition to being husband and wife we are lovers and the very best of friends. Most of the girls who said "no" to me are now divorced. You should not be embarrassed if someone declines your offer. Instead, you should be proud of yourself for having the strength and conviction to follow your heart. Take comfort that, in all probability, it is his loss and not yours.
2006-06-30 07:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by C.B. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Maysfan! What about a suttle compliment? See how he reacts. Also, you might invite him to a party--not as a date, but to get the advantage to socialize one on one. Last but not least, in the end the answer is going to be yes or no! Gather up some confidence and go for it!
2006-06-30 07:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by DEB DOO 001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu just walk up to the person and say yes or no do you want to or not if not you will waste time wondering what you could already have nown do he like you or not wasting time will only drive you nuts while he nows nothing about it silly you go for it
2006-06-30 07:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by david 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still ask him I mean what you got to lose if he says no move on to the next guy.His lost someones gain .
2006-06-30 07:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was 2 yrs back maybe he likes you now. go for it ask him again why not take the chance. if he turns you down again move on there is always someone nicer
2006-06-30 07:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and flirt with them,and if they like you they will ask you out.
OR
Look at the and when they look at you.Look Away.
2006-06-30 07:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by nedwons32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab his balls and stick your tongue in his ear, I guarantee he will be interested! I'll bet he'll even get a woody to prove it!
2006-06-30 07:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Retarded Possum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking about liking somebody and then cashuly ask him out
2006-06-30 07:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by babe108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him if he acts like he's interested go for it if he just ignores you or doesnt flirt back move on
2006-06-30 07:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll never know till you try. Ask him out. If he says no, it's his loss.
2006-06-30 07:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by Man_With_No_Name 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋