Parents should i walk away or get job to pay for them please read details?

Question

My parents are going into business with a man..Hes going to set up business,workers,bring customers etc.I dont feel my parents should depend on him for everything & this business wont be able to function if he or workers arent going to come to work they can have their own demands or side with this man.I have tried telling my parents since my sister & my future depend on this business(as they have sold off everything else)but they refuse to listen.I have asked them to do business where they wont have to depend on anyone.I feel hell dupe them since they put in finances & he does only work.They wont let me walk away as they need me to work pay for rent,food etc.Should i walk away or get the job pay for it?

Answer 1

Use them as they use you then get a job move on with ur life by marrying having family of your own

Answer 2

well this is a problem for you, i think there are many ways in which you could help yourself first, which is, ** maybe try and not kiss your boyfriend in front of her this way she doesn't need to freak out about anything alone those lines - and i am sure your boyfriend would understand ** you could learn to cook for yourself, even just little meals. or buy a few different fruits so that when that feeling of hungry comes you have something healthy for you to put into your body. ** you could also go to a friends place or family members place when you need a break from everything in your house, i'm sure people would understand that everyone and a while people need a break from their reality. ** you could also -- as weid as it sounds -- privetly get some footage (even just on your phone) of what your mother does when she is having these mood changed and swings. this way you can show your dad what is bother you and what you need a break from (but again i wouldnt show anyone else except for your dad) this way maybe you could together find someone or a place that could help your family out. such as respit care. oh yes and a way to help you with the career, maybe in your spare time get out of the house relax, maybe walk around the shops and see what kind of work they have there, then make up a resume and when you go the shops again give then into your places of choice and tell them if they are looking for people to work you are avaliable, this way the business have you information to concider when hiring.

Answer 3

No, don't pay for food or rent, etc. You've told them how you felt and it's their job to provide a roof over their heads and feed themselves. They're not disabled or unable to work and need to do this themselves. Walk away from the situation. Sometimes people need to learn things the hard way in order for it to sink in.

Answer 4

I would tell them that what they are doing is stupid to depend on you for rent. What happens if you get hurt(god forbid) and cant make the rent. You will starve to death and your sister will be forced to work. Tell your parents that what they are doing is jeapordizing your lives and to have an escape plan. or you could join the military and leave them to their vices while sending your sister money.

Answer 5

I wouldn't put all your eggs in one basket. Get a job and move on with your life--away from this business. And don't count on their money being there later, because they're clearly taking chances with it.