my boyfriend want me to suck and i don't want to do it what should i do?

Answer 1

If you want him to respect you and if you want to respect yourself, do not allow yourself to be pressured, cajoled, whined, wheedled, or shamed into doing something that you do not feel comfortable doing.

Oral sex, giving and receiving, is absolutely fantastic. But, if you're not ready, FOR WHATEVER REASON, just say no. Your body, your choice.

Answer 2

Tell him no its that simply and if he continues to ask you well tell him to do somethin u know he would refuse to do and then be like its kinda sucks to be kept being pushed to do somethin u dont want to do right but if he does do it then well u might need to find a way to reward him lol but still hold your grounds no matter what. Sex should not be a pressured thing and sadly a lot of times it is so try to make the right decision for you not him.

Answer 3

i had the same problem like 3 weeks ago and i turned it down and he brokeup with me but i now have another guy much better cuz this guy doesnt want all that nasty stuff yea its ok to makeout and holdhands even mabe show each other ur stuff but that is alittle too far 4 girls r age cuz we could easily get an std it isnt my desison its urs if u wont to do it if u really love him then go ahead but if u dont wont to then just tell him and mabe he will understand and if he dont then u dont need him

Answer 4

Listen Honey, if you don't want to then DON'T! Something of that nature should be a mutually wanted sexual activity. Don't let any man pressure you into something you don't want to do.
Becoming sexually active before you're ready will only cause you pain and issues later in life.
Stand up and be confidant as a woman before you engage in such things.

Answer 5

Don't do anything you don't want to do. There is all kinds of pressure from everyone to fit in and do what everyone else is doing. Believe me, everyone else is not doing that. I understand. I was pressured to do that once, and did. I hated it, and only did it out of pressure. I have never forgotten the experience, and never stopped disliking the person who pressured me.
Now I am married to a man who loves me no matter what. Don't give in to pressure. If he really loves you, he will give it up, and understand. My husband loves me for who I am, not what I do.

Answer 6

surly, u r not going 2 do it because it is what he wants. if he can't accept the fact that u r not a sucker, the 2 of u may need 2 take a break from each other.

Answer 7

tell him to suck it himself. dont' do anything you don't want to. if he continues to pressure you then he doesn't really even like you. he just wants to have sex with you like a pervert. get away from him and find a real man.

Answer 8

tell him to eat your pu*sy first! But first don't shower for days. Tell him if he does this for one week then you'll suck! If he thinks its worth it then maybe it'll be worth it doing it for him but i don't think you should do anything sexual at all since you are so young but it sounds like it would be fun to see if he acutally does it! Tell me the results!!

Answer 9

dont do it. you sound like youre unsure anyway. there will be plenty of time for that stuff way later. right now, just enjoy being a kid. and honey, dont even fall for the "but youll do it if you really love me" thing thats bullshit.

Answer 10

Tell him to f off. He can't make you do anything you dont want to do and if he gets mad and still tries to make you then maybe you need someone else who wont pressure you.