It Was A Good Guy He Tock Care Of Kids That Wasn't His And Loved Them Like The Kids Wear His
2006-06-30 06:40:26 · 17 answers · asked by stacylavone 1 in Dining Out ➔ Fast Food
You will probably NEVER get over his death. But as time passes by so will the hurt, frustration, and confusion of it all. I too had a true love who died, and I spent a lot of hours teared up even though I tried to refrain from crying.
But the tears you shed, after a few days are not doing you any good. Because after a bit of time any tears shed are now selfish tears. That is why you will have to ask yourself "are these tears because he died or because I am lonely without him?"
He would NEVER want you to be upset, change your life, or quit trying in life. If he really cared about you he would want you to continue on and be the best you can be, not only for yourself but for your children.
Think about him often, as often as you like, and be thankful for the amount of time you were able to share, not on what you will never get to be able to do.
Consider yourself lucky that you were together at all and that you were able to know someone like him in the first place.
Trust me, you will get over the pain. However there is nothing you can do in the meantime except live your life and keep moving forward. Try not to be idle. Keep busy in whatever it takes to keep you busy.
I'd like to tell you that there are cures for this type of pain. But we both know that there isn't any cure except for one...and that is time.
God love you, what ever that God may be.
2006-06-30 07:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by kolohe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as people tell you there's some magic wand to wave and it'll all go away, to be honest. You never will get over the fact he's gone. For you, you should give yourself some time to heal so that when you do go out dating you won't go out just to find someone to ease the pain and end hurting yourself and your kids.
Also remember it's okay to go on loving them and missing them, even though they're gone but it's not something to live your life by. Heal then move on. Remember all the good things and don't judge people and think because they're not like him they're not worth dating. Just follow your heart and you'll know when it's time for you to move on.
2006-06-30 13:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy and will just take more time. I had someone I was in love with die 20 years ago and I still think about him every day. However, I did move on and love again. Be strong, think of the good times and know that you deserve to be loved again like you did with him.
2006-06-30 14:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ronna P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its horrible to lose someone or something you love but inorder to get over it (not 100%...because no one can ever fully recover) you need to partake in activites that get your mind of the certain loss...or you need to explore new hobbies or start weight training at the gym to relieve stresses and sadness that may be lingering within.
Its really hard, but sooner or later you will be much less sad about the person you lost.
2006-06-30 13:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by G*G* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound cruel, and I DO NOT intend it to be. Hurt will heal in time. Keep his good memories alive, this is healthy. But, you are still alive, and need everyday to celebrate life. Go out meet people, have a good time. It may be awkward at first, but it will get easier. Good luck.
2006-07-06 13:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by mo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just move on. You get through each day like you usually do. Try to avoid thinking about him. Think of yourself, first and foremost. You will not be able to move on if you will not stop thinking it is already over.
2006-07-01 06:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a lost love is time. It heals everything. You may never get over his death, but you will get through it.
2006-06-30 13:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by TracieLacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. My ex hung himself 3 years ago, and I am still not over it. Eventually, it won't hurt as bad, but it will always hurt and there is nothing you can do about it. I am sorry for your loss though.
2006-06-30 16:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by jagerchick80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prayer and time will heal you, don't let people pressure into dating, only you will know when you are ready. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family..
2006-06-30 14:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by GrandmaW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let yourself cry
Celebrate the joys that he brought into your lives
be thankful that you had the experience of a Good Man.
2006-07-05 04:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by snowcrablegs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋