2006-06-30 06:37:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you may have ocd you jsut have to move on.
2006-06-30 06:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by zzzz42 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because the past is what makes you who you are today. Every mistake, every good thing, every conversation, look, or sound, has made you the person you are just this moment. My answer is that the past is SAFE and predictable. You've already been through it. The Future is anything BUT. Hence the fixation!
2006-06-30 06:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we all do. You've got to stop dwelling on things you have no control over.
Whats done is done.
Try concentrating on your current life, look at where you are headed in your future and try to make changes to get to where you want to go.
Set an attainable goal and work towards that. Something like "I want to enroll in singing lessons within the next 3 months". NOT something like "I want to win American Idol next year".
If your past mistakes have hurt other people and you can't get past that, then go to them, face to face, and apologies. Go into it with the knowledge that they may not forgive you. That is up to them, not you.
Worry about what you an control and not what you can't.
2006-06-30 06:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sensei Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coulda, woulda, shoulda... I guess thats what you might have been thinking... but the best thing is to learn from your mistakes and try hard not to repeat them.
You know what they say:
Hindsight is always a 20/20 vision...
Also, IMO, its always better to be safe then sorry and the most important thing:
NEVER ASSUME.... assumption is a weakness 'coz it makes an AS* out of U and ME.
Good luck!
2006-06-30 06:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sh00nya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want to concentrate on not making the same mistakes again.
2006-06-30 06:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by moose_skinner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're afraid to move on or afraid to repeat the same mistake again.
2006-06-30 06:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by junior's700 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse you see now what you could have done differently! but what you need to do is learn from them so you dont make the same mistake again!!
Believe me i am still trying to do this!!
2006-06-30 06:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that...everytime i think about the mistakes i have made i get knots in my stomache and catch myself looking down...
2006-06-30 06:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by jennybilbo_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know sweetie... but you should not have any regrets. mistakes are made by everyone. just remember that what you have done doesn't make who you are. put your past behind you.
2006-06-30 06:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by spreejo456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there is nothing better to do than to belittle yourself. i love doing that..
2006-06-30 06:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by Calvin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋