I got this thing for not being myself with people i dont really know...is this normal? Whether it is or not is there any way to prevent this from happening? I hate this
2006-06-30 06:15:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I see other guys dat have no problem with this and it makes me mad cuz i cant do it..
2006-06-30 06:20:16 · update #1
It can be hard to not be yourself around other people because there is often a fear that they won't like you if you do act like yourself. When this happens simply take a breath and think. I once heard a saying, its better to be hated for who you are, then to be loved for you you're not.
The best way to prevent it from happening is to figure who you really are and not be afraid to show it.
2006-06-30 06:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow Dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are all you got. So you may as well be yourself always. Everybody goes through similar feelings. If you're not comfortable among new people, or certain people. BE YOURSELF anyway. Eventually the real you will come out and there you are.
2006-06-30 13:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not indicate what would you be like if you are yourself. How are you with people you don't know? If you want to prevent it change your attitude and stop planning about how you'd be like with people you don't know. You should not be dealing with people you don't know anyway. You could get yourself in a big soup.
2006-06-30 13:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by pundit005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Some people have a drink or two to loosen up and take the edge off.
2006-06-30 13:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by kopguy30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, to the 3 jerk of the weck, audra s, not everyone wear a mask, if u do then fine, but dont say every one does.
i didnt even get the question, but following what every one else said, r u shy of u? sinse i didnt get the question i dont know what to say, but i will tell u something
dont change ur identity,not cool
2006-06-30 13:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by jose r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if your not yourself around other people when they do find out what your really like it can be heartbreaking, so just be yourself, if your friends don't like it then their realy not your friends, but if they truly are your friends they wont care. Hav funn! & b ur self!!!
2006-06-30 13:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just check yourself. Think before you speak and make yourself be authentic. It is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not.
2006-06-30 13:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone wears a mask, no pun intended! but if you have confidence and you are a nice person, you should be comfortable being yourself. I am myself and if no one likes it then I cant help that!
2006-06-30 13:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by MuffinPuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness. Awkwardness. Lack of self confidence. We all have felt this at one time or other with people we don't know, so please don't worry too much about it. Try to relax. Good luck.
2006-06-30 13:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks but its true...Most everyone acts different when you first meet someone...You have to feel them out..the way I see it...Its ok...Good Luck...
2006-06-30 13:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋