what should i do if I have to work with her alot??
2006-06-30 06:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by I know best 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
she thinks she is better... and she is the new gal she acts like i owe her something when i dont
2006-06-30 06:39:28 · update #1
There are so many of us who eventually have to face this situation. You can not change other people or control how they act BUT you have all the power in the world to control how YOU act. Be professional and cordial because this will only work towards your benefit. This is your job. Don't let anyone ruin that for you. It may be difficult but you'll be a lot less irritated if you keep a reasonable distance and maintain short , professional interactions. And exhale afterwards and let it go. Don't hang on to the irritation after you're gone home. Leave the bad feelings behind. It will make going to work so much easier.
2006-06-30 06:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the answers were quite good. Just because you don't like someone doesn't mean you can't work with them. If she is uncooperative or abusive, never talk to her. Avoid her completely and you will have no problem. If you must talk with her to get information and she refuses to give the info, let your boss handle it. In 40 years of work I've only encountered an employee that rude once. I found another employee who was able to give me the same data and my problem was solved. Believe me, you'll have far more difficult problems to deal with than what you have now. Good luck.
2006-06-30 13:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have years of dealing with people you don't like. Do not do anything petty or be unkind or inconsiderate. As an earlier answer said, be professional, and only that. Get your job done and work well with her. If it is unbearable, look for new work.
2006-06-30 13:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up, this is real life. This is what you do for an income. You're going to be a better person for treating everyone with fairness and respect whether you like them or not.
2006-06-30 13:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by simsta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as professional as possible, without getting into personal details.
2006-06-30 13:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be completely professional at all times.. maybe even think of having coffee and expressing to them why you dont like or get along with them
2006-06-30 13:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ramona L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it also might depend on why you don't like her. Can you give us an example?
2006-06-30 13:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Carmen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be polite but not friendly do not have coffee or lunch with her but thank her politely if she asks you
2006-06-30 13:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by nora7142@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her only when absolutely necessary...
2006-06-30 13:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do you wor. you don't have to talk to them or lunch with them.
2006-06-30 13:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by georgie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋