MY BF THINK I'M SO [PREETY] BUT I KNOW THAT HE ONLY LOVE MY BUTT AND MY BUP...........SO WHAT DO U THINK I SHOULD DO??
2006-06-30 06:04:29 · 68 answers · asked by Jick 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Only YOU can answer that question, with help and guidance from your Parents.
Your sexuality belongs to YOU, and should not be run by other people, other than qualified therapists, counselors, parents and educators.
In other words, you should not have asked this question, here. Things will only get more confusing for you, if you ask other people to tell you what to do.
Really.
2006-06-30 06:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age , his age and maturity level which doesn't really sound that high for either of you. You have sex with someone (hopefully) as an expression of the love and respect you feel for that person not just because you are hot for eachother.
Sex can really complicat a relationship. If he breaks up with you for not doing it then why would you want to be with someone like that any way.
Finally , sex can be a beautiful experience not just a physical one if you are ready and are mutually in love and have respect for yourselves and each other. If you do not have those things it can be traumatic. It is something you can never take back. Once it is done it is done . You can not unring a bell and if you are so unsure that you are asking a bunch of strangers on the web then you are not ready.
2006-06-30 06:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that u should answer 4 urself seeing that u will b the 1 2 deal with the repercussions, but I think that u shouldn't have sex with some1 u don't love or some1 that u know doesn't love u. Ur just setting urself up 4 trouble.
2006-07-13 07:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a dictionary and some good books. Read about people and their experiences and decide for yourself when decisions are at hand what will be the best choices for you to make. Life is all about choices and you need to make the ones that are the best for you.
2006-07-13 14:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of having sex with him because he thinks your pretty you should have sex with him because of love. If there isn't love it is lust and no you shouldn't have sex with him. I'd wait but do whatever you really feel comfortable if you are doubting your decision at all then i don't think you are ready... sex is a big decision and shouldn't be rushed into. Make sure sex is what you want.
2006-07-12 08:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by blackrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think your BF only gives attention to your physical and visual properties why do u go on with him.If u r uncomfortable with him just leave him remember u r not a slave u can have your own decision
2006-07-13 00:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by pinkturtlebursa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you dont know and are askin people i think you are definatly not ready. to have sexi think you should feel a conection and wantto share a whole new experience wit a person to share your feelings for one another, not just because u have a nice butt and he wants to hit that. if hes pressuring you then hes with you for the wronmg reasons and thats not what any one deserves
2006-06-30 06:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by jennyo2850 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not have sex with him. You should wait until you are married before having sex with him. He may not be the one that you end up marrying, and then it will result in your feelings being hurt as well as your self respect and self esteem being lowered. You also run the risk of pegnancy and diseases, and worst of all aids.
2006-06-30 06:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your age! some girls even women are not ready to have sex. you have to know what you are getting yourself into. once you do it you can never go back. think about all the bad things that could happen and how those bad things could be prevented. such as STD"s getting pregnant.and then how you will feel after words if he doesn't stick around.
2006-06-30 06:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by creation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only have sex with him if u feel comfortable and there are feelings involved if u likes u for your body there is a HUGE chance you will get hurt so dont go through with it thats my personal opinion
2006-06-30 06:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Just_A_Goof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋