ok about a month ago i got into a fight with 2 of my really close friends. one of em i knew ever since kindergartin. her name is lilit. now we haven't talked ever since. our fight wasn't dramatic. we just all of a sudden split. she was the one i would say everything to so i really miss her and want her back. she has summer school right now but do u think i should call and leave a voicemail saying sorry and to call me back to talk about it??
2006-06-30 05:51:59 · 33 answers · asked by theresa =] 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's been a month and that's more than enough time to forgive and forget if it wasn't a dramatic, I slept will your man fight.
If you feel that you should call then call. But also remember the fight was between three people, not just you against them. They should also be girl enough to call and say hey that was stupid, I'm sorry lets be cool again. You all have been friends for so long to let a stupid fight break you apart.
So call state your claim, and if no response, I hate to say it, you were the better person and its time to move on.
2006-06-30 05:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think your friendship is worth it, YES DO IT! I had a situation like this too. I knew this girl forever. We were best friends and in high school, we got into a fight and we didn't really talk anymore afterwards. She moved away thinking I hated her and I thought she didn't want to have anything to do with me! I missed her when we didn't talk because of course she was my best friend. We finally reunited 5 yrs later. I'm suprised she thought I was going to jump her but she still wanted to be my friend after thinking that so she avoided me and I thought she was trying to ignore me all those times! We missed so much and should of really said something to each other through the yrs!
2006-06-30 07:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! friends are hard to come across when you have one that long YES! I am 24 and my high school pal is now married and her husband controls her. I love her but disagree with her life style I still call and visit but were not as close. If the matter at hand isn't so huge you cant suck in your pride and forgive or forget then YES dont lose a friend over human error or stupidity or a love interest.
2006-06-30 05:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by one1destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I highly suggest calling her because I had that happen to me once and I called her back to say sorry and we've stayed best friends now after that happening 2 years ago. So call her even if it isn't your fault you got in a fight, call her and tell her it was your fault anyways.
2006-06-30 05:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its obvious that you value her friendship. I never give up on my true friends, that's what makes you a good friend yourself. I think you should, and then move on in the conversation, don't talk about the fight besides "let's get over it" because if you do it might cause more tension. Just move on and keep your friendship going.
2006-06-30 05:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cantrelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i have a lot of experience in dis. i suggest u to follow ur hart if u really want her back. i tell u dis because it happened 2 me before and i asked people and dey told me 2 do things i did not want 2 do. i might sound like an old lady but i am only 11 and 3/4.
2006-06-30 05:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her when you know she's home and will pick up for sure. If she is angry at you tell her if she really valued your friendship, then to forgive and forget, or at least that you'll try and fix the problem. Tell her not to let anytihng get in between a friendship, especially if you treasure it.
2006-06-30 05:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call an apologize... it seems that you at least feel part to blame. And its a good step for you to make the first move. Just call and see how it goes... Its better than not knowing at all
2006-06-30 05:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Grin Reeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definatly call becasue more then likly he is feeling the same exact way. Dont leave a voice message but talk to her on the phone when she is at home. You also could plan to meet somwhere and work things out.
2006-06-30 06:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by summer luvver :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should call her and leave a message. if you really want her back and the friend relationship you had you would talk this out and make it work no matter what
2006-06-30 05:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋