I hav ebeen with her for 3 months now, an di cant get enough of her. we are together every single day. I love being with her. Jus tthe thought of her makes me melt. I know she is the one for me. I just wanna know if its time or too soon.
2006-06-30 05:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by gimp2k5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To be honest, 3 months is too soon. I am willing to bet 99.9% of all couples feel the same way you do after 3 months. It's the newness of the relationship that you are getting excited about. If I were you, I would wait a couple of years. I say a couple of years because your feelings will most likely change in that time. If you still feel an enormous amount of love for her then go for it.
2006-06-30 05:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Elvendra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, "the time" is NOT right now. You'll definitely know, If you're questioning rather or not it's too soon, you probably need to wait a bit longer. Remember that you'll like to think that marriage is FOREVER, and if that's a fact in your minds, then waiting shouldn't be a big deal, you say it's FOREVER right, then you two have nothing but time, take it ,and enjoy what beautiful life mysteries that's in store for both of you. HASTE MAKES WASTE truly. Good luck.
2006-06-30 06:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too soon. You need to see if you still love each other when you're at your very worst - on the fifth day of a rained-out vacation, poleaxed with the flu, after losing a job, etc....you need to see each other at your absolute worst to know if you'll get through "for better or worse!" That's when you can truly judge each other's character and know if you can be together.
Marriage isn't something to be approached as a "true love fairy tale" - you need to think very clearly, which you can't do until well after the infatuation starts to fade.
2006-06-30 05:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by mybrilcareer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait another 3 months. It's early in the relatinship and you haven't experienced any real problems between one another. IF you feel the same, then I say go for it.
2006-06-30 05:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo god i wouldnt get married until i know how the money is going to go or what goals are what. or if this person has anytype of illness, or how many kids you all want there are alot of questions to be asked but if you want to marry a perso without all of that and you are in love i say go for it
2006-06-30 05:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by gotchafool05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may be a lil to soon you should definatly get to know her 4 at least a year because she may feel its to soon to get married.
2006-06-30 05:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three monthes isn't very long but if your sure you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her than go for it
2006-06-30 05:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart!
2006-06-30 05:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by lrybio2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u can answer this question u just do
2006-06-30 05:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋