i have ocd and depression and trich, a hair pulling disorder, and when i told my friends, they laughed, said yea right, and walked away so i showed them my bald spots and they went balistic!!! they ditched me in december and i still have not gotten over it...i talked w/ them and they never responded...help!!!
2006-06-30 05:27:07 · 11 answers · asked by poppy_princess14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Those aren't real friends. Real friends are there for you through thick and thin, and they would never dare make fun of such serious things as you have described. Don't listen to their laughs and teasing. They are either really big jerks or they are just to juvenile to understand the severity of your problems. Meanwhile, I hope you've gotten help for your problems, and if not, I urge you to because you don't have to suffer with depression...it can be treated. Not sure about the other 2 you listed, but I know there are professionals out there who can help you. It's time you made new friends. Real friends who aren't going to ditch you when the going gets tough. Hang in there!
2006-06-30 05:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow u sound alot like me! I have trich. I saw a therapist in high school. I still pick a little at my eye lashes but, Im doing better. U know ur friends are not much of friends if they ditch u when u have a major problem. I got picked on bad b/c ppl. saw me as different. BUT I WASN'T! Neither are u. Lots of ppl. have ocd. Different kinds. Its sucks to have trich but, talk to ur mom. Go see a therapist. It helped when I was able to talk to someone.
Honestly though what good are friends if they don't try to understand and help or just be there for u.
Just wanna chat u can message me!
2006-06-30 05:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your array of questions on your profile page. No wonder you have trouble in school.!
You need way more help than Yahoo can give you. Medical and psychological counseling.
Or better parents.
Again, my prayers go out for you.
But y'know what? Everyone's got some kind of strange sickness, or problem. They just don't talk about it.
Keep quiet about your weaknesses. Pretend to be strong, and you will get stronger.
It's a law of life.
Jim
2006-06-30 05:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were your true friends they wouldn't have ditched you they might be like woah i'm sorry but they shouldn't be like ew gross. so just tell them that and if they don't understand then they arn't your friends
good luck and I'm sorry about your ocd and depression and trich, a hair pulling disorder
2006-06-30 05:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a filipino and that i'll assert that it's not a cultural aspect. we are no longer racist contained in the first position. His acquaintances might want to likely got here across something about you that turns them off or maybe that guy it already taken. His acquaintances per chance knew that he's already taken and inspired him now to not pursue you and to in straight forward words stay unswerving to his girlfriend.
2016-11-30 01:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by peentu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hi! i understand ur situation...dats really rude of ur frnds to tease u and all that stuff..well the wporld arnd is not really kind enough to accept people the way they are..it just shows tht u dont deserve frnds like them who r rude and dont understnd their own frnd.!not everybdy is perfect.so just move on with life...leave them..they r not worth being frnds..! carry on with life..think positive..it will work wonders! All The Best. Tke Cre dear.
2006-06-30 05:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dont wanna be your friend over that then odviously they were never your friends because you dont really have control over your depression and ocd so get some new friends that will understand you.
2006-06-30 05:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it was very brave of you to tell your freinds that. IT takes alot of guts. I think your freinds werent really your freinds, becuase if they were, then they would have helped you out and been there for you when you needed them, but they weren't. forget about them and make some new freinds. Good luck!
2006-06-30 05:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not true friends if they walked away like that. They should have been more then willing to support you through everything.
2006-06-30 05:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they where you real friends they would not care i would say go get other friends and let them no that that was not nice and if they say any thing bad about you then ditch tehm (they are not your true friends) i hope it gets better cya
2006-06-30 05:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by =D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋