2006-06-30 05:14:51 · 6 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think so, I think you should talk to her and see what is going on, and why is she acting this way, ask her whats going on, don't put her in a situation where she automatically throws up the wall.
Maybe she is going through something and she feels she can not talk to you about it.
Just think about it... don't try to cause an arguement or anything. cause she will be quick to shut down again. Just ask her to be real with ya. you feel me.
2006-06-30 05:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by TeTe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, id be worried.. with out further detail i can only guess at my own conclusions..
Either, your constantly asking her the "W's" Where were u? What were you doing? Who have you been with? to the point that she's fed up with feeling she cant do anything with out feeling like shes under interegation..
Or
She is guilty of something (that doesnt necessarily mean shes cheating) but she's quick to go into defense mode out of her own guilt for something...
Shutting down is the worst thing she can do, a marriage with out comunication is not going to last very long.. I do believe you should either try to reach out to your wife, find out whats really going on if you can, if not go seek marriage counseling.. but something is definately there, and one of you is causing the wedge thats come between u.. if your making her feel as though shes being interagated, back off, and give her alittle breathing room.. worst thing people that really love someone can do is smoother the life right out of the person they love.. if she's being with drawn, time to find out why..
Good luck..
2006-06-30 13:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you are badgering her about everything, then she feels defensive. If you have reason to believe she is doing something wrong, then she trying to get you off the track. I don't know your situation, so it's hard to answer you. But you know which way it is, so judge for yourself.
2006-06-30 12:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need to go to councelling. She has issues that need to be addressed, and for whatever reason doesn't want to talk to you about them. If ya'll cannot get things figured out and learn to talk openly, it will lead to trouble in the marriage.
2006-06-30 12:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, b/c women are always defensive
2006-06-30 12:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum....Hard to say but if my husband was like that i would be worried. I would ask him whats up
2006-06-30 12:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋