Is it my job or his?

Question

this guy i really wanna hook up with is coming over today to chill...but 4m my sorces he might ask me out but hes a lil scared...but if he dosent i dont wanna wait on him, what if he never gets up enough courage to ask and then i am stuck all alone again...and i dont like bieng alone!

Answer 1

So intiate it nothing wrong with the girl going first..

Answer 2

Hey Pizza Girl
From one pizza girl to another. Just make him comfortable asking you out. Let him know that you are not going to turn him down. Or ask him out your self. If all else false take him to a comfy movie theater one where the arm rest comes up. Then let that 1st kiss happen. I always works for me. Even my best friend (guy) since I was nine could not rest a movie theater kiss. And go from there. Good luck.

Answer 3

He's already coming over, are you sure he wants to go out? Normally you go out first and then end up at the house! You skipped a few steps. No one should come to your house until you have made sure it's worth bringing them to your parents attention. You make dates away from where you lay your head. The way you are going the relationship could be a disrespectful one! Maybe I'm wrong this is 2006!

Answer 4

1. You need to stop being afraid of 'being alone'. Sometimes, being with just your friends and your self is enough. You DONT need to be in a relationship all the time.

2. If you really think he likes you, and you like him back, ASK HIM OUT. Where is it written that the boy has to do it?

Answer 5

Well he's coming over isn't he?? What's your hurry anyway?? Just be patient. What have you got to lose? Nothing...you're alone if you wait.....you're alone if you give up....so if you think he's really great just give it time. Maybe he's shy and just needs some time to feel comfortable around you. If you're really that impatient, cut him to the chase and ask him out first...that is if things go well. If not there's plenty of other fish in the sea.

Answer 6

Gently hint to him that you have a thing for him, then maybe he'll notice and might have the courage if he likes you back. Guys usually need the security that the girl likes him before they ask you out. I know that's what my boyfriend needed. GOOD LUCK! Luv~Carly

Answer 7

Think of something that you think might be fun to do. Something that coming up soon in your area like a movie or a concert or something. Then bring it up in the conversation and see if he bites. You could also mention a restaurant that you really like. If all else fails then just say "would you like to go out sometime?".

Answer 8

Believe me, being alone (especially when you don't want to be) will make you stronger and wiser. The more you get to know yourself (by spending time with yourself), the easier it will be to 1) be alone & 2) find someone genuinely cool and into you. discover how great you are and then dive into a relationship...

Answer 9

Grow a pair and just tell him how you feel. Communication is the basis of a good relationship. If you can't do that now how can you expect to have a relationship any way.

Answer 10

its nice when a girl takes the first step, i think that if he doesnt say anything today, if it feels right and if ur getting the right vibe from him then go for it, whats the worse that could happen? if he says no which i doubt, at least he'll be a good friend dont you think?

Answer 11

being with someone because you are afraid to be alone is an unhealthy reason to get into a relationship. Get to know yourself and be comfortable in your solitude, then a healthy partnership can occur.