March 2nd a draining relationship ended with a guy I'd been with for a yr and a half. I moved back home, and because of the situation he was forbidden to call the house. Thing is, lately he's really been on my mind, and in my dreams. Should I just call to say hello or leave it in God's hands?
2006-06-30 05:06:57 · 11 answers · asked by Blessed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello Blessed,
You mention a draining relationship......you mean something has happened and you are both/or you/ are tired. Pregnancy, arguments, family interrupting your relationship to what is wrong or right? Something is wrong in your question.
I hear 'lonely' in your question. That is cool. It takes ages sometimes to get over pain. If this was a manipulating relationship it will take longer to get over.
I went out of a long 2 year relationship--very tired then--and my pain of missing our disfunction ended up pushing me back to him. I left my family again, and well, 10 years later we divorced, and I finally saw how disfunctional/ messed up we really were.
Pain. Wow. I can feel for you.
I wish I just rode the pain out and cried and found some other things to do with myself back then......I hated my parents for all their ideas and pushing me. It was love. I was stubborn.
We must think, look over the whole picture before we make such big decisions, because what decisions we make (sometimes out of passion!!) are everlasting and painful. Not worth it.
I wish I had waited, cried, and dove into some form of interest, be it painting, reading, hiking, just to find me again back then. Seriously.
luv, and best to you,
Ava
2006-06-30 05:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason that he's your ex-boyfriend. Sometimes it's hard to let go of someone you've been with for awhile. Just leave it alone and let God handle the situation. If you find your self thinking and dreaming of him a lot. Try going out with some friends or just talking to someone you can really trust. Good luck!
2006-06-30 05:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're to young to have a boyfriend then stick to growing up with your family. Sometimes the love you need is already there! All you have to do is open your heart and let your family in your life again. Other than that, get over it and move on. If it's all that, one day you may cross paths again!
2006-06-30 05:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by dmd4sho65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard question to answer..........I think if you still have deep feelings for the guy you should try to call but it could lead to heartbreak because he might have someone else and if you hear that it might break your heart........Just go with what you think is right and if he is on your mind all of the time then I think you should call and just talk and see what he is up to just have a normal conversation and dont let on that you think about him all the time...........Good Luck............
2006-06-30 05:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ I would called just to say hi or make sure he's ok... it could be women's intution telling you to call..... but dont get back together with him if it's meant to be it will... but the relationship ended for a reason remember that!♥
2006-06-30 05:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by ?Blonde_Queen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are working through your dependency issues.
if you can't clear your mind of him you will end up falling for the same type of guy.
2006-06-30 05:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Find another guy.
2006-06-30 05:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i think u should call him..b4 its too late..cuz mine is too late...he moved away..jux act like nothin happened and pretend like hes ur friend....k
2006-06-30 05:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by Babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was FORBIDDEN? Girl, leave that alone!
2006-06-30 05:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to do wht u think is right. so i Hope u figure out
2006-06-30 05:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋