black girls so rude when tlak to them
2006-06-30 05:05:56 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Dan:
Did you ever think you may be hanging around the 'wrong' black girls? and how do you communicate with them?
Listen to yourself, listen to who you are hanging with, and your answers lie there.
luv Ava
2006-06-30 05:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but I beg to disagree with you. Not all black girls are mean and rude. I have several friends who happen to be black, and I tell you they're not even close to being mean or rude. Perhaps something's wrong with your approach. I met several black ladies at this site called webdate and they're all really nice. So, why don't you see for yourself.=D
2006-07-04 21:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All we ever see on TV is the black girls that are mean and rude. Now I realize that they are being stereotypical, but why DO the networks continually show the black girls as being this way?
2006-06-30 05:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjailbird424 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, black women are very strong women strong willed strong minded and a lot of the time that can make them come off as mean and rude you just have to make a special effort to understand them especially if you are not black
2006-06-30 05:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by mrpoet03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness ! You posted a question which is sexually stereotyped, you used a swear word, and on top of that you labeled an entire ethnic group as being unkind/unpleasant.
Try this exercise : Point your index finger at someone and make an accusation. There will be ONE finger pointing at them, but your other THREE fingers will be pointing back at you !
Your question seems like the pot calling the kettle "black".
2006-06-30 05:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is called Stereotyping and it is done in a racist way. Maybe certain people are mean and rude to you because you are rude to them. If you are racist in your mind, I'm sure that shows in your actions. Certain people pick up on this and act rude towards you.
Next, you need to learn to speak english and type it correctly.
2006-06-30 05:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Veccster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, it all depends on who u are talking to, i'm a black female and was very offended but what u said when- guys approach me i'm not rude, maybe u should take time out to think about your approaching style? as a black female i don't like to be called out of my name- what are u saying to them? without a doubt i know there are black girls with attitude sometimes for no real reason but the colour of our skin shouldn't be used in relation to our attitude level i've had many bad experiences with brothers but i would never let those experiences make me generalize all of them into one category-its unfair to those who are respectful-black guys simply don't give us a fair chance and are too quick to judge us-there are many black girls including myself that are very nice and approachable- contact me if u need help on tactics to approach girls-sorry this had to happen to u
2006-06-30 05:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are projecting something that triggers their behavior. Maybe your perception is a projection of your own behavior.
They are rude because they are ugly from the inside. Don't steriotype people so. People seem to be rude because maybe you are acutely obnoxious.
If someone is acting in a negative way, call them on it and ask them, "What are you angry about?"
2006-06-30 05:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've talked to black girls and yes some of them are really mean and rude. But others are nice too...
2006-06-30 05:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many black women are not treated well in their communities. They live difficult lives and have to deal with a lot of crap that we would NEVER understand. The attitude you're referring to is defensive. It's their way of shielding themselves from the outside world until they learn to trust a person.
2006-06-30 05:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not all black girls are mean and rude. But this is a stereotype that needs to stop because if you lable someone something they might end up being that even if they weren;t n the first place
2006-06-30 05:08:00 · answer #11 · answered by Rasi E 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋