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she is going to be 40 and knows nothing!

2006-06-30 04:51:45 · 12 answers · asked by lvydvy19 1 in Health Women's Health

Okay...I am not related to this person. I work with her. For as long as she has been at this job, she knows nothing. She has been here 10 years...me 4 and everyone brings everything to me to do for them because she can't do it right. 10 years! And she doesn't know how to do her job.

2006-06-30 05:15:59 · update #1

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"You really are intellectually challenged."

2006-06-30 04:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by dirftwood22 6 · 6 0

Stupid is a harsh word itself. How old are you compared to the other person, what makes you think she is stupid. How do you know she knows nothing?

There is no polite way to insult someone, an insult no matter how it is expressed continues to be an insult.

Your open question is just that, too open. Try and be more specific or the only answers you will get will probably offer little in the way of actual help and good advice.

Hope this helps

2006-06-30 05:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Karan 6 · 0 0

I think you need to clarify "stupid." For example, my dictionary gives one definition as "slow to learn or understand" and another as "lacking intelligence." I think a person who has reached 40 does not lack intelligence; she has obviously survived this long. Perhaps she is not "wise to the ways of the world," as the saying goes, thus being naive. In that case, you should help her expand her experiences.
I think the question really is, why do you want to tell this person she's stupid? Is there any value in doing so? It's a point to ponder.

2006-06-30 04:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0 0

Your Mom is not stupid! It is just that adolescents think they know all. Just cool it, when you grow up, you will understand.

P.S.:Do you want to tell her politely that she is stupid or is she politely stupid? Grammar is not your best subject, is it, especially someone who thinks a 40 yr old knows nothing!

2006-06-30 04:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anro 2 · 0 0

you can't tell soemone they are stupid without hurting their feelings. YOU could help her learn things where she seems to be lacking. YOu could take the opportunity to be HELPFUL instead of hurtful.

2006-06-30 04:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 0 0

I'd ask if she really thought about things before she said them because sometimes she just doesn't make sense.

2006-06-30 04:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0 0

What is the point of telling her? Will it make her study and be smart? Leave it alone

2006-06-30 04:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0 0

Hey try not to act so unnaturally. That's how i would tell them

2006-06-30 04:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by supermmario93 1 · 0 0

Leave her alone.......there's no reason for you to say anything of the sort to her......that's just rude and immature.

2006-06-30 05:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 0 0

maybe its not your place! dont feel like you have to be the one to tell her!! specially if you do care about her feelings!!just be nice!!!

2006-06-30 04:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 5 · 0 0

you are really slow in the head

2006-06-30 04:53:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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