how many of you have the issue that your husband rolls over and falls asleep right after having sex??my husband is only 25 i feel like he's an old fart or something, is this going to continue the rest of our lives. he does this everytime!! so annoying.
2006-06-30 04:40:49 · 39 answers · asked by toni h 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-06-30 04:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know many women that have that problem. I know women that are 18-19 that have that problem with thier man. I guess what I would do is try to make sex more intresting to him so he isnt able to roll over and go to sleep. Take it in the kitchen or the livingroom...he cant fall alseep on the kitchen floor! Try things that may surprise him or things that may surprise you. Spicing up the sex or changing it around on him will catch him off gaurd and he will likely respond diffrently. If my husband is slipping in that dept, that is what I do..and it works for him. Good luck!
2006-06-30 04:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 25, post-sex shouldn't be this lackluster. Yes, the passion does trail off a bit the longer you are together; but, if there is love there, then you should work on keeping sex exciting. Make the first effort yourself. Surprise him with champagne, music, candles, HOT lingerie and see if he still just rolls over and falls asleep ;)
2006-06-30 04:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by rhiannon2797 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are going to be men and it is much easier to accept and love them for their little idiosyncrasies. I have been married for eleven years and honey, my husband did this at 21 and he does this at 32. There is absolutely nothing different about his stamina or sex drive. I would advise you to chuckle to yourself about it and move on. Take it as the ultimate compliment. He is secure in the relationship, so rather than worry about anything he or you did wrong (sexually) he simply falls asleep with the pleasure of your company. Don't worry, it took me six years of marriage to really come to terms with the differences between men and women and to appreciate and revel in those differences.
2006-06-30 04:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by girlfriday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though people go through phases and do change they're routine about some things, some things stay the same. If that's just the way he is, it will most likely continue. As long as he takes the time to please you, don't complain. Watch for a couple cuddling on t.v. and say 'must be nice' maybe he'll take the hint.
2006-06-30 04:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having sex in the middle of the day, or in the morning. If it's always done at night before going to bed, boredom and monotony will surely set in. Try different times and locations (It does not always have to be in a bed). This will make things more exciting, and then he will have no excuse to sleep afterwards. Good luck.
2006-06-30 04:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work, Children, life, and family obligations can really take their toll on some people. At least you're getting some. Its been a while for me. With 2 toddlers, I'm exhausted all the time.
2006-06-30 04:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by jason m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first person on here. Your husband is probably very tired and having sex takes alot out of him. Try waking up and having sex it is more rewarding because then the whole day is good.
2006-06-30 04:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it. My mom says it's natures way of keeping them with you. Don't expect anything different. Talk to him at other times and let him sleep after sex. It's not his fault, men are programmed like that. The chemicals in their body make them very tired after sex. Be happy he's sleeping, satisfied with you.
This will happen for the rest of your life. To be happier, love and accept it.
2006-06-30 04:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a lot of men i know, including my husband because I ask this very same question, will say is because the couchie is SOOO good it takes all the energy out of them. I believe it is very normal for men to do this. It does take a lot of energy from them to perform sex.
2006-06-30 04:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just rolls over... girl your lucky. My hubby goes into the other room to smoke a cig and doesn't come back until after I am asleep. Be happy!!!
2006-06-30 05:49:19 · answer #11 · answered by lrybio2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋