I am in a commited relationship and I keep having dreams about my exboyfriend. In no way would I ever want to go back with him, he's a loser, and in jail I believe, but I just want to know what could be causing these dreams.Serious Inquires only please!!!!
2006-06-30 04:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by ~*Katie*~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've obviously had serious emotions about him. You are involved with someone new, so there are those same feelings you had in one relationship that you will have in almost every relationship. It is up to you to concentrate on the present one and get rid of the old. Think of all the happiness in the new one and forget the old. It is almost like having flashbacks to what you want to forget. Let the NOW be the only thing you think of before you fall asleep.
Good Luck
2006-06-30 04:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by kurt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you don't want him back there may be some unfinished business between you. There was a reason after all, that you chose to be with him in the first place. Everything couldn't have been wrong all of the time. Sometimes we put on rose colored glasses (even in dreams) and remember the way things were. Don't worry this doesn't mean that you still love him, only that you have a memory of the good times between you.
2006-06-30 11:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by kalischild57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel bad i still think and dream about my ex and you will always love your ex no matter how many times you tell yourself you dont you still do yeah he might be a loser but once upon a time he was your loser if he in jail write him a letter and ask him how is he doing and if he says fine and that he is ok you will sure to get over him but never stop loving him you dont have to be back with him but a friendship is the sweetest thing ever dont give up your not completely over him so thats why you have these dreams
2006-06-30 11:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Raychel B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny because i've been having dreams of my lowlife ex too. And my fiance is the love of my life. It's strange cuz in my dreams I feel like i'm so happy I found him and so in love. We even have sex!
They eventually go away though. Not sure why they came in the first place. But use the opportunity to shove a dildo up his azz or something. Just for fun.
2006-06-30 11:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur mind doesnt want to get over him. u may want to, but there must have been something about him that ur new guy cant give u. he may have been a jerk but if u were with him then there must have been something he had that made u happy. im in a commited relationship to, and sometimes i think about my ex too. but i realized why. my dude is perfect, but hes too perfect. so i think about my ex and all the funny mistakes and inequaties alot.
2006-06-30 11:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe dreams are caused, when your brain is trying to finish thoughts that it had during the day. so try not to think about him during the day and maybe it will stop.
2006-06-30 11:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by A-Ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to dream dictionary it can help you figure out your dreams i do the same thing too but i do think of him all the time
2006-06-30 12:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
i think u should try to overcome this.
noway u wl spoil ur present coz of past.
take care!
2006-06-30 11:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rushik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat pizza you'll have nightmares and not have to dream about him
2006-06-30 11:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just wondering how hes doing now
2006-06-30 11:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋