I have always been interested in him and he tells me that im pretty and always to watch a movie with him then he always stares at me and when i look at him he smiles or winks and he does these thing in front of his wife like the other day he told me he couldnt cross his legs because it was too big i just dont know what to do like i catch him looking at my *** and some times he touches on me and when i look into his eyes i know that he wants me but he married what should i do and only reason he married his wife is because so he can be a legal citizen and then even his wife thinks in 2 years hes going to leave her because he will be a U.S resident and then again i get along with his wife.
2006-06-30 04:38:06 · 9 answers · asked by Raychel B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Raychel:
Actually you have an interesting situation here. You could be wrong and you could be right.
Communication is your ticket here. Plain and simple. It sounds like they are only in their marriage to have him come and stay in this county. Right?. and you are friends with his wife, right?
Talk with her quietly, and alone some night. Ask her if she is 'in-love' with him. Yes, ask her. Don't sneek around, as this is unhealthy for the both of you, and in later years you will not trust him if 'you' are with him. Trust me on this one.
So, go and get together with his wife and ask some concrete questions. What are their plans, does she really feel for him, et cetera. Then if the situation is one of a time honoured citizen thing and they are going to part, well, time will tell after that.
Take it slow, communicate, and try not to let your passion blind you. Its hard, but remember, what you pick in life, has long permanent results.
luv Ava
2006-06-30 04:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He IS a married man and I don't care if his wife knows that he is doing this and in front of her. He has no respect for her or him self. Stay the heck away from him, find you a man that is not married or does not have a girlfriend. He is a cheater and if by some chance that you was to end up with this man, he will cheat on you too. Would you want your man to treat another woman the way he is treating you, doing all that stuff in front of you. I know at least he is doing it in front of her, but honey that is totally wrong for him to do that. He is one of those kind that wants his cake and eat it too. Get away from him NOW!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-30 05:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who tells you he can't cross his legs because his penis is too big is A) an asshole B) clearly only interested in you for sex. I know its hard to ignore him when your attracted to him, I've been in a similar situation, guy was engaged, but let me tell yah, he's bad news and he doesn't truly like you. If he did he would leave his wife, and would respect you and not say nasty things to you like that and flirt in front of his wife!! He is only interested in sex trust me. I found out the engaged guy who did this to me had been talking behind my back, and bragged to a coworker, saying "how into him I was and how he thought I was really boring." He was only doing it to give himself an ego boost. Trust me not worth it, lesson learned, don't look stupid for this guy. Good luck girl.
2015-07-21 16:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by alexa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GET INVOLVED!!! If this guy does this stuff with you in front of his wife, think of what he could be doing in front of you if you guys get together. Also, think of what he could be doing behind your back. If he's married and has this behavior, hes not a good guy for you. Take my advice, this guy is not loyal and genuine, find someone else who is worth your while.
2006-06-30 05:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be up front with him. Let him know that there is no chance between you to. This guy sounds like a real piece of ****. If he will do this to his wife he will do this to anybody else he gets with.
2006-06-30 05:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guy is a complete A$$hole, and you should stay away!!! While I know people do it all the time, marrying someone just for the sake of gaining US citizenship is shifty and just not cool.
2006-06-30 04:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my freaking gaw!!! Stay away, if he is married and cheating he will cheat on you in the future!!! Find someone better... Not some LOSER!!!!
2006-06-30 04:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by precious_sea_shell18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, he is married if he cheats on her, he will cheat on you. Find someone else
2006-06-30 04:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him! How would you feel if you were married and your husband cheated on you?
2006-06-30 04:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋