he was real sweet and was perfect n wanted 2 b 2getha 4eva n move in 2getha then all of a sudden he changed-started actin distant sayin the most awful stuff to me yellin for no reason at me n a bunch otha stuff but i do know hes still that sweet amazing person and i will always love him forever and for always
2006-06-30 04:30:46 · 9 answers · asked by lilmommiNeosha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
half of you dont get it he and i were going to get married and we really were in love and i know im not ever going to get over him or stop loving him or have a lasting relationship with any one else because i am and always will be in love with him and only him even though he changed from the perfect guy to a real *** and made **** up yelled at me threatened me for no reason and after ignoring me for 2 months asked if id sleep with him what should i do because i know know one else will make me feel the way he did and if its anyone else i feel wrong and imcomplete without him should i try to get him back, just be alone for the rest of my life because no1 else will do and when im with someone knew i cry wanting my ex back and it makes mesad or should i just stay with the man im with now he loves me and wants to get married id be ok with that because we care for each other i just wouldnt be as happy or feel complete or the way i would if i had Joe back
2006-06-30 11:32:56 · update #1
You sound very confused about why he changed so suddenly. Perhaps there were other things going on in his life, things you either knew or did not know about. Either way, you probably should not try to get into another serious relationship until you are able to get past this in your mind. Till that time you aren't doing yourself or any guy you hook up with any favors.
Good luck!
2006-06-30 04:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying that the grass always looks greener on the other side. You want to go back to your ex because he was so sweet and perfect. If this is the case why did you leave? There must have been a reason for the change-up in his attitude towards you. He may be an amazing person, but not the one for you. Perhaps you will always love him. I think there's always a special place in our hearts for someone that we've loved, but that doesn't mean they are right for you. Love is not always reason enough to be in a relationship. There must be a meeting of the minds as well. If things changed like you said they did then maybe you don't know him as well as you think you do.
2006-06-30 04:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by kalischild57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you WILL get over him eventually. Time heals all wounds. From the sound of it, you were not right for each other. He needed to move on.
Secondly, life in general will be better if you focus on school and friends for a while and stop trying to be with a boyfriend all the time.
You do NOT need to be in a relationship every single day of your life. Take some time, learn to like being with yourself.
Lastly, try NOT to write like you talk. Writing English is a skill like any other. Learn it and you will be amazed how effective it is.
2006-06-30 04:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about everything, ask him why he was like that....Try and see if he still has feelings for you, and if he does then try and work it out, but lay down the law on how a mans suposta treat a lady! And if he is a total jerk about the whole thing, the best thing for you to do would probably be to stay away... you'll be able to move on!
You just gotta know... If its ment to be... It'll happen!
2006-06-30 04:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be more concerned and involved with a class or two in school where you can write proper english instead of being so involved in a love relationship right now. You have enough keys on your keyboard to spell words correctly in case you didn't know. (smile) Maybe he is acting like he is once he read one of your letters or something. Well, it is possible.
2006-06-30 04:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay away from that manic-depressive man. Your are asking for trouble, your breakup was a blessing in disguise.
2006-06-30 04:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could rephrase your question in English, that'd be a start...
2006-06-30 04:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up!
2006-06-30 04:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Christ!! WTF did she say??????
I asked for LARGE fries!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-06-30 04:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋